2007-03-02 09:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by jatoia 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
dear sweet latisha-baby-girl don't let anybody tell you it will hurt more and fill your head with a bunch of crap. When you get married and you find the right one, then it will be fine. It is uncomfortable, but with someone you love and the person you plan to have children with it can be the most wonderful experience in this entire world.We were created by God to have babies when we get married, so you know if we can accompadate having a child God certainly fashioned and formed our bodies in a way to have children. Now sometimes we ladies have to have a C-section but most of the time, there is complications and for the health of the baby a Doc. will sit down and discuss all this with you and explain why they have to to do this. I'm going way to far. You just be the smart girl you sound like you are and everything is going to be fine. Get your education, don't depend on No Man-baby No Man to have to look out for you. You are smart enough you can be whatever you want to be. Your future is right now in the palm of your hands. Don't do something that will destroy those plans. You Sound Like A Smart Girl to me-I just Get that deep down inside Feeling you are. Be Smart-Baby-Girl-Wait and It will be the best thing you ever did,now the peer pressure is going be bad, but no road worth taking doesn't come without it's whips and turns and curves sometimes. You beat the odds .Don't let some Crazy Fool Tell you anything different. Be Good Baby And Take The Best of Care of Your self....I wanna hear someday of you becoming something Great!!!!!oh-turn that around at the top-meet right one first-then later marriage.sorry bout that
2007-03-02 09:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO, that is a myth. I' am 21 and still a virgin. Just wait until you are ready and find a person who loves and respect you. Don't feel pressured to loose your virginity. Just take your time, remember pain varies with each woman, every first time experience isn't the same.
2007-03-02 18:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and still a virgin. OK stop worrying about it . it won't hurt any less if you lose it tonight or 20 years from now. but i would think it would hurt less when your older strictly for the reason that your pain tolerance level should be higher.
2007-03-02 18:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 18 and still a virgin. It wont make a difference, if anything I'd think that when your older you'd have a higher tolerence for pain. Save it honey, that what I'm doin. It'll be that much better when you're with that special someone you love
2007-03-02 17:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right person. And when you are with the right person,,pain will b the last thing you will worry about. n by the way..its a sweet pain.doesnt hurt,,but u can feel the heat all over your body.
2007-03-02 17:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by jinie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will hurt the same if wait till next week or 20 years.
Stay a virgin! You don't realize how big of a deal sex is, you won't realize it till your older and looking back on your life and you'll say, "what was I thinking?"!
Have respect for yourself and your body and wait till your older and REALLY understand what having sex can do to your emotional well-being.
2007-03-02 17:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
No. I would wait anyway. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and I totally regret it. You should feel very proud of yourself for waiting.
2007-03-02 17:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Grapes 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No it wont hurt LESS if you do it now. It dosent hurt that bad anyway so that shouldnt be the reason to have sex now or not. Believe me the pain is not something you need to freak over... its gone in a second.
youve probably heard it a million times.... but "wait until youre ready" and blah blah blah!
2007-03-02 17:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by girlvette2000 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
wait till marriage there are many std's out there. you will get a better job when you get married you will have less fights ect. people 15-19
86% of people regret that they didn't wait
2007-03-02 18:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!. As I told my own daughters, be sure that the first time is with someone who is more concerned about you than about himself. A youngster who only wants to satisfy his own urges is going to go too fast for the two of you to prepare you with love and affection, cuddles and pets. With enough foreplay it shouldn't hurt much at all.
2007-03-02 17:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Patsy A 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋