Three more days.?

Question

It's three more days untill its been one year my mom has been out of my life. she died last year froma two year battle of cancer.
What kinds of things can i do to help me get past this day, and celebrate my mom.

i miss her a lot and it will be a hard time for the whole family.

Answer 1

Well. I lost my mother, and it does get easier every day. But it is still hard and it's been a while. I'm am very sorry for your loss. Is what you can do is talk to her, think of some things she would want you to do to celebrate her life. Just remember all the good times you had together. All the memories. I talk to my mom every day, that makes it easier as well. Good Luck. God Bless. And I promise it does get easier. If you ever need to just talk. You can write me anytime.
[e-mail] I'm a good listener.

Again, sorry for your loss love,

Hope I helped.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry for your loss. Get out pictures & remember the good times. Hopefully your Dad & any other siblings will be open to telling stories. Make her favorite meal & make it a tradition to have it on that day. If you can invite her friends over for the dinner & to participate in the story exchange. Remember, whether she's here on Earth or not she is ALWAYS with you & all you have to do is say 'Hi Mom, I miss you'.

Answer 3

Celebrate her life, like you would celebrate her birthday if she were still around physically. Your family can get together and make a scrapbook, go out to dinner together and discuss the happy moments when she was around. It's the day her suffering finally ended and she was at peace. It's something that deserves being celebrated!

Answer 4

I think the best thing to do is wake up and go to her grave ( if she choice to have one) Put her favorite flowers on it. I say you should go out with your family. Be together on that day. I know its sad, but be happy that she was once in your life. Celebrate her life, share stories with each other. Its OK to mourn on this day. Its only natural.

Answer 5

I lost my mom to cancer 18 years ago and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her....most days it doesn't hurt like it used to ....I just try to remember the fun moments we had and there were soooooo many....we were very close and she was my inspiration.....focus on her face...a happy laughing face and think about the good times you shared and how proud she would be of you right now......you are in my prayers...

Answer 6

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my uncle a few years ago, and
he was a very special man. I never got to say good bye, and I
think he died not knowing how much I loved him. I visit his grave
as much as I can, and I always plant flowers. I talk to him when
I am there and I often shed a few tears, but I really feel
connected to him there.

Answer 7

i hate to say this but have you thought of celebrating your mothers life on any day except the day of her passing ? i lost my mothers not long ago and i dont know if i did or do anything specific except not think of them at all until a pleasurable memory is triggered in my brain and then i ride that memory for all its worth. i dont even recognize the days of passing as that day is so unimportant compared to all the days i had with them here. im sorry for your loss , its never easy.

Answer 8

Don't dwell on her sickness. Remember all the times she made you laugh, and happy. Visit her grave and talk to her. I know that sounds crazy, but you will feel better. You can mourn, but dwell on happier thing about her..cook her favorite meal, and sit around and talk with your family about the good times..

Answer 9

think about all the good things she did and how much she loved and still loves you, see, she doesn't want you be sad just keep that in mind no matter how painful it is

Answer 10

will you cant forget that day & i'm so sorry.
in that day you can do some thing that she wanted for you.........
i want you to know that the black pit cant go but you can contiune your life.