what to say to your friend when she wears a bra but doesn''t even fit her?

Question

My friend wears an actual bra like i do but hers doesn't even fit and is compltely flat what should i tell her?

Answer 1

when your alone tell her that and then tell her to ask her mom to buy her one that fits or go with her

Answer 2

This ones a little tough but I think you can handle it. First off it helps that you are friends, so knowing that, I suggest that you two have a girls day out to the local mall & hit up the Victoria's Secret or other simalar type store, (fanny wrappers, or maiden form) and have yourselves measured and fitted, its completly free and not embarasing like you might think. (staffers in stores like that do this everyday, you've got nothing they havent seen a 100 times before) At least you give her the oppertunity to find out her correct size & while your there she might pick up somethin better for her shape. Also if shes a really good friend dont even bother beating around the bush just tell her, she might even know already and just hasnt had the time or cash lately to get some new ones. Good luck, and thanks for being such a good concerned friend for her! God Bless.

Answer 3

some topics are best left to professionals.

if you are really concerned that her undergarments are ill suited for her, arrange a lingerie shopping trip to a reputable store that can help your friend find a fit and fashion that will not only suit her tastes but her need to be properly fitted.

and quality ligerie is never an extravagance - for the well put together woman, it is an essential! Be willing to spend some money to get well fitting and well supporting underwear!

Most better women's clothing stores that sell lingerie have trained personnel that can help your friend. If you make a day of it and take your friend to lunch and maybe buy something for her as well, it will help her in more ways than one. She will know that you genuinely care.

Answer 4

I think that you should set a day aside and go shopping with her. Then get her to get a bra fitting done and you get one as well. That way she would know what bras to wear and she won't be embarrassed because you both got fitted.

Answer 5

I agree w/Alicia. Just go to the mall together & wander into that section. If she asks why, say you want to buy a new bra & you want to be fitted properly. Go to Macy's, Dillards, Victoria's Secret or Fredericks - all these stores should have someone trained to professionally fit you.

Answer 6

you should have a bit more respect for your friend and her feelings. this stage in your lives shouldn't revolve around her bra being flat. did you ever think maybe she already knows but needs to wear it to get used to it and if she has a shirt on that may be a little see-through she should have it on so people aren't seeing her aureole's. very insensitive to only be thinking of yourself and how you feel about it. and anyway if she was a true friend you wouldn't be asking here you and her would have already had laughs over it and moved on. grow up!!!!

Answer 7

just leave her be. she is probably only wearing a bra that don't fit her to try and fit in with people her age like you. anyway whats the big deal she will fit into it one day and until then she is making do with the body she has. it could be worse and at least she isn't huge and spotty. at least i dont think she is!!!

Answer 8

Make a suggestion to go bra shopping together that way she won't know you like hey you need a new one

Answer 9

Umm.. sweetie you bra is kind of big/small. Maybe you and I should go to Vicky's and we can go crazy shopping to impress our guys. (In a nice way)

Answer 10

Tell her in a good manner and suggest some other ones that you know