I feel like i'm always being hurt by people, espcially males.
When I was 15 I was raped and sexually abbused by my x boyfriend for 3months.
After that I was sexually abbused by an other guy for 5months
And recently my scout leader has been making sexual comments about my body.
I don't understand why this has happened to me, do people see me as an easy target? Or what?
2007-03-02 08:49:59 · 9 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I've been in counselling, and on medication none of it has helped me. I have reported my scout leader. Thanks! x
2007-03-02 09:04:19 · update #1
At that time I was very depressed and I had no self worth. I feel much better about myself now and i'm older and more mature. I have a new boyfriend who i've been with for over a year now and he treats me well.
And what do you know of my background? What does having a computer have to do with being abbused?
2007-03-02 09:25:41 · update #2
I'm almost 18 now
2007-03-02 09:28:19 · update #3
the situation you find yourself in is not uncommon,people do mean things,in this day and age you cannot trust anyone, you cannot be yourself and once you step out of that box you're seen as being weak and people take advantage of you,and in this case the abusers are boys,so you must realize you are not the problem you are a victim,you have a right to enjoy your life without fear that a few prison bound hopeless individuals choose your pain to make their lives complete for only a brief moment,We often make bad choices but there are some choices we have to learn from if we do not we will always be victims of something.
2007-03-02 12:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you stayed with your abusive boyfriend for 3 months and another for 5 months says a lot about you and your problem, which seems to be a complete lack of self-worth. You don't think you're worth anything, so neither do those around you.
Counseling for major problems is not a quick fix. It may take several years. Stay with it. If you don't see any progress after a year, ask for another counselor. You're on the right track, just keep at it.
2007-03-02 17:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor baby, that must have been terrible! You should see a psychologist or a therapist to help you get past that! And press charges on those bastards that made your life hell! And take preventative action! Don't let yourself be raped and/or sexually assaulted by your scout leader! Tell someone and get help!
If you are feeling depressed you should see a doctor, and don't hurt yourself or do anything drastic, because then those bastard who hurt you will have won! Take control of your life! Don't let them stop you from doing what you want to do! It's your life and they had/have no business in it!
And like I said before, track down those guys who hurt you and get the law involved!!!
2007-03-02 17:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was your age i had been through a hell of a lot more then you have. I'm not going to take pitty on you cause that is the last thing you need! As other people have said you need to have a good look at what you are doing in life to bring these people to you. Your saying that you were 15 when this 1st started happening i would like to know how you got into a relationship with a guy who did that n how you were stupid enough to keep letting him do that to you. I know for a fact that at 15 it is not hard to get away from people like that. I don't know if i believe this cause who has had all of this happen to them at 15 but still lives in a stable enough environment to have a computer and go to scouts
2007-03-02 17:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by jacquelinemeddows 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your scout leader should be reported for sexual harassment. By all means get some counseling. You will feel better about yourself and will learn how to avoid these situations. Please do this while you are still young and can break the cycle. I've known women who wasted years of their lives because they were victimized and couldn't learn how to love themselves.
2007-03-02 17:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in counseling you should be. You probably are attracting abusive people. That doesn't mean you deserve to be mistreated, but you need to know how to keep yourself safe.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 16:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone.. i wuz molested by my step dad when i wuz in 4th grade i am in 11th now.. i just told. i feel your pain and i am sorry. um guyz are assholes well most of them are. but you should just tell someone and put them into place.. u have to show them u are not easy. maybe those biys spread rumors now ppl thing they can take advantage.... just tell someone that is all i can say. GOOD LUCK... i honestly feel your pain
2007-03-02 17:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Bre N Kenny 8105 Baby!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you are just sort of un knowingly letting it happen. try doing something physical like going to a gym orsomething. get strong and dont let those men push you areound!
2007-03-02 17:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh poor poor baby. Well I don't know but I wouldn't ever suggest acting like a spoiled brat.
2007-03-02 22:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 5 · 1⤊ 6⤋