I haven't talked to my dad for almost 3 years, and when my fiance asked me to marry him, I thought I should get in contact with my dad so that I wouldn't have any unresolved issues before getting married. Plus, I really want my dad, problems and all, to be there to walk me down the aisle. My fiance was really supportive of it at first, but then when he saw that my dad wants to work on the relationship and get past the crap from before, he started getting pissed off about it. My dad thought that it would be a good idea to sit down with one of the pastors at my church as a mediator to get past the past. That pissed my fiance off even more. It's like I don't have the answer on this at all. It's so frustrating. I just want things to be fixed before I get married and instead it's getting all srewed up. What is so bad about me fixing my relationship with my dad? Why is my fiance getting so upset about? I would think that he would be happy about something like this.
2007-03-02 08:43:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do not marry him.
you know that. if he is being that contolling before the wedding he is going to be a beast after.
2007-03-05 01:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋