I have been dating a guy for the past 5 month. I love him. We are now sharing a room together, spliting the cost of the rent and so fourth....(temporary) .We are not bf/gf......and we have not have any sexual intercourse or kissed.....I just want to know if this is going to affect our dating relationship or will this help our relationship to become more serious?
2007-03-02 08:41:25 · 16 answers · asked by Lonna L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say the appropriate time will present itself, you have to be aggressive some times and go for you want including sex,
2007-03-02 08:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to kill your relationship. Those little things that you have said that you are not doing, you will eventually do. All it will take is the right buttons to be pushed and when they are watch out. Now in the long run let say you plan on getting married, there's an old saying why buy the cow if the milk is free? Most individuals who shack up tend to stay shacked up for years ever intending to get married, but not wanting to really give up their so called "freedom" by being tied down to the person they claim to love and "live" with. It may sound old fashioned but it's time tested and true
2007-03-02 16:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by captsuprmarvlman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. You are in love with this guy you have been dating for only 5 months but you havent had a commitment to be in a relationship because you dont want to mess up your relationship. If you are just room mates I wouldnt consider it dating you both are just hanging out. If you dont want more than a roommate friendship with him dont sleep with him. Sexual intercourse would only make things awkward if you are unsure where the relationship is heading. You need to talk to him and see what he is looking for he might be as confused as you are.
2007-03-02 16:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Living with someone (even temporary) can cause much of the chemisty to die. If you are dating and you live together,there is a big chance many of your living habits (ie the things you eat, how clean or unclean you prefer things to be), can cause him to become less (or in some situations more) attracted to you if he is not use to it. Be careful not to get on his bad side or change the way you've treated him.
2007-03-02 16:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by lilmizterious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you see him as a lover and not just a friend?
It sounds like you love him on a strictly friendship level. How is it that in five months you've never kissed him? I feel like there's a lot missing from the story. If you do in fact love him it's definitely not a passionate love.
2007-03-02 16:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together after you start dating is going to add more intimacy than you'd normally have when people start dating.
So yes this will definitely affect your dating relationship.
2007-03-02 16:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have been going out for 5 months and you haven't kissed I think you should maybe do that or else it just might start affecting something really it's ok to kiss there's no harm in that.
2007-03-02 16:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you want from it, just be sure to be careful, he might think he has the right to you cause now you guys are renting a room together, do you guys sleep in the same bed??? adn nothing has happenend...im surprised
2007-03-02 17:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are mature in the brain department , it will help you build a strong relationship in the future
2007-03-02 16:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be dating somebody for 5 months, but not be boyfriend and girlfriend...decide are you dating or not, then it will all come to you
2007-03-02 16:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋