My life has become very predictable. I'm 20 years old, in college, working part time, and I do the same thing every day, rarely doing anything different from day to day. I'm a VERY shy person who has never really had good friends. I haven't really made any friends in 3 years of college, and my few highschool friends all left the state (Hawaii) for college. I'm content with my life, but honestly don't see myself ever doing anything but getting a job and living alone. I naturally want a girlfriend, and eventually a wife and kids, but honestly don't see that happening. How do I break this cycle of blah...?
2007-03-02 08:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with the hobbies! You gotta get a life OFF the computer and away from work.
You could also spend time at the library, beach, hiking, joining a bowling league, church, or some other sport, or volunteering, just as ways to meet more interesting people. Since you are shy, you have to put yourself in situations that will make you interact with others. It will be hard.
Good luck!!
2007-03-02 08:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some hobbies. Go to the gym or learn some sports. Or if that is not your thing- learn dance or yoga
2007-03-02 16:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Water weasels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try listing your profile at YoBling.
http://yobling.com
It's a free dating site.
2007-03-02 18:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋