My boyfriend is driving me crazy. I love him. But he's getting on my nerve. I mean every little thing he does. I say something and i feel like i have to repeat my self 20 times before he understands me. Now yesterday i specifically said to pick my daughter up from school...my daughter calls me talking about he didn't pick me up. WHAT PART OF PICKING HER UP FROM SCHOOL DIDN'T HE UNDERSTAND. Then when i said something he said "my Bad"
Yeah your bad alright when you find yourself gone from here!!! LOL
Should a female have to go thru this?
2007-03-02 08:20:35 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely NOT!!! If you have to repeat things over and over.... he just simply does not care enough to pay attention. And forgetting something as important as your child is unforgiveable. you are sooo lucky that someone else unknown didn't decide to "pick her up" .. Believe me - I tried to change him - made excuses for him-even joked about it, but it is not funny, and it is not cute, and it will not change. Obviously , your needs and wishes are not on his list of priorities, and if they are not now (when he should be trying to impress you) ,they never will be.. Don't waste any more time, or risk your family's safety for an immature, selfish, loser.
2007-03-02 08:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by wheezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the posters here......your daughter is your responsibility not your boyfriend. I assume since you have a boyfriend your daughter was most likely born out of wedlock. So call your "baby daddy" and get him to pick his child up. Maybe he's out of the picture because you are too demanding. Only guessing here.
2007-03-02 16:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some of us go through it. But that shouldn't be a reason to dump a guy if that is his only problem. Just think about the positives and the negatives and if the negatives over power the positives then that is a good reason. Apart from that just try to calm down a little and think of another way to handle it.
2007-03-02 16:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by petty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometimes I feel like that too. But I just tell myself that I just need a little break and that if we dont talk to eachother for a day or a couple of hours then everything will blow over and we will be okay. That is how I handle it I dont know how you do but maybe you should try mine if you havent already.
2007-03-02 16:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by cheergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is your child, not his. That makes it your problem. A boyfriend is not a husband, or a father.
Second, it sounds like you tell him what to do instead of asking. That does not make people want to do good things for you.
If the relationship is not working for you, you can try and fix it, or you can move on, but you can never "fix" another person.
2007-03-02 16:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by crossbones668 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have our moments when we here what is being said without actually listening. The problem here is, ether he doesn't care and he wants out of the relationship. Or he does care, but you telling him all the time of what to do is pushing him away.
Talk to him. Ask him when it was that he stopped listening. Maybe it is you that isn't listening to him.
2007-03-02 16:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by jamesrichmond28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person that said, first of all, he's not your husband, why is it his responsibility to pick your child?
2007-03-02 16:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it your boyfriends responsibility to pick up your child?? I don't get that. If he is getting on your nerves then leave him, don't use him for you convenience.
2007-03-02 16:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have kids of his own?
If not then he likely just isn't used to thinking about others other than himself, namely children.
2007-03-02 16:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to a little one, hell no!!! Sounds like he missed the audition for the scarecrow on "The Wizard of OZ"..."
If I only had a brain...da da da da da da!!! LOL
2007-03-02 16:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋