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Question

I am 13 and i think im pregn. please take me seriouse i am very scared!! i need help to see if i am or not my belly is really hard and i think im lossing wait is this a sign? or is my body getting use to me not eating so much? or do i just got a virsous (there goin around fast) also im not having any morning sickness and the "father" said he pulled out.....am i pregn. or am i goin crazy?

Answer 1

go and get a pregnancy test. the next time you hang out with your friends just say you need to go to the bathroom and go and purchase one. take your best friend with you if you want. if you are sexually active at 13 that's the only idea I have. no offense but you probably shouldn't be having sex yet-you're obviously not physically or emotionally ready. you actually should be eating a lot more than usual if you are pregnant. take a friend with you to see a guidance counselor at school if you need anything else-they are your best bet next to your own parents. but it might be hard to confront them about it first, but remember you're going to have to tell your parents eventually.

Answer 2

First of all... whens that last time you had your period, second of all this should scare you enough to STOP HAVING SEX!... If you havent had your period then take a test... tell your parents (mom or dad) I know you dont want to have a baby yet you havent even gotten to live your life yet! I was 15 when i got pregnant and my mom was there for me, I got an abortion and dont regret one bit of it.. I know i wouldnt have been able to take care of a baby at 15 i was still in high school and havent been able to go and have fun yet!... think about it... really think about it! you are way too young to live on welfare and push the baby onto someone else so that you can get your schooling done... trust me its harder than you think! It totally sucks! I met my hubby when i was 16 and ended up pregnant at the age of 17... I married him 2 months after the birth of our first baby and ended up getting pregnant 2 more times!! I used every birthcontrol imagined and got pregnant on the pill, the patch, and the nuva ring... Please protect yourself! Having a baby is total trauma to your body especially when youre only 13... your still a kid yourself!

Answer 3

Ok your belly being hard and you losing weight have nothing to do with being pregnant. Second thing, why the hell are you having sex??? You're a child! This kind of pregnancy or disease scare is exactly why you should be waiting until you are old enough to deal with it. If you are to continue having sex, for God's sake, protect yourself, don't be stupid. You need to find a way to get to a doctor so you can find out what's going on. It's sadly obvious you are too young for this stuff, because, you don't even know what the signs of pregnancy or disease are. You should be thinking about your future, not your sex life.

Answer 4

Jessica OUCH 13 years old. Okay first of all THE PULL OUT METHOD isn't not safe. And if you think you are pregnant get a home pregnancy test. Losing weight is possible if you are pregnant. When is your next time of the month. If you are late get a Dr's apt. You need to relies that you might be pregnant. For the future if you aren't you need to get into your school work and if you want to have sex get your parents to get you on Birth Control and it's not safe to go with out using a condom. You need to think about YOU not how it feels with out one. There are so many types of Sexual transmitted diseases out there. So please for yourself stop going with out protection while having sex and get a home pregnancy test also you need to make a Dr apt.

Answer 5

Ok Jessica..you need to go to the dollar store, and buy a preggo test. This is going to be the only real way to tell if you are or not. Just because your knight in shining armor says he pulled out..most likely he didn't pull out in time..Boys are jerks and you should never trust them..especially at 13..but go take a pregnancy test. We could list symptoms until we are blue in the face, but everyone is different with their symptoms. Good luck. And I really hope that you aren't preggo...you are way to young to be hopping into bed with anyone..focus on school...

Answer 6

oh my... you are having a bad situation but, the only solution for that is to tell your parents about it. If you think u are, get yourself a pregnacy test, u are lucky if u are not pregnant. But if you are go tell it to your parents even though you will sure be in trouble they can do something about it rather you hiding it from them.
Having sex at an early age is not a very good idea because you are not sure if that guy is actually love you or you will be married with him. best luck to you.

Answer 7

First calm down and from now on if you are not pregnant please know that the "pull out" method does absolutly NOT work. If you are choosing the responsiblity of being sexually active please go to your local health clinic and get birth control. They do it for free and you don't have to have a parents signature. They also do free pregnancy tests. You need to go this afternoon, get one so you know and they offer counseling if you are, birth control if you are not. They do not judge. I used them when I was young also. www.plannedparenthood.com Or just call your school and ask for the number to planned parent hood. They are great and you need them right now. Good luck.

Answer 8

Girl, you sound like you have problems. Go to the clinic and get a pregnancy test, they are usually free. If you are pregnant, DO NOT HAVE THE BABY! Tell your parents, and get an abortion. Also, you should NOT be having sex at 13. Find something to focus on, like a hobby, to keep you busy. You are WAY too young to be sexually active, do not ruin yourself. You still have your whole life waiting for you to do as you please, and there is so much out there for you to expirience. Good luck.

*PS to froot loop girl,: publishing your email on the internet is not smart!

Answer 9

Oh Man if this is a serious question...you are in trouble!!! First you should not even be having sex at 13 and besides pregnancy think about the STD's you may have gotten. If you were pregnant you would be gaining weight not losing weight unless you are sick a lot. Are you late for your period? Have you even started your period yet??? Get a test if you think you are pregnant.

Answer 10

If you had unprotected sex you could be pregnant, have you missed a period? I would go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test, the ones from the dollar store work just fine. Take the test then see what happens. You really need to talk to your mom though.