Im having a CRISIS!!
The guy I like knows it. But he doesn't exactly even get along with me.
I told him I liked him through email...cuz he wouldn't talk to me any other way!!
Hes been ignoring my emails.
And been spreading rumors about me, saying Im a wh*re. Which im the exact OPPOSITE of.
Should I call him and yell at him? Or just talk?
Im heartbroken
we used to be great friends but...not so much ne more.
He used to like me. And I used to like him. But we neever went out.
I NEED HELP! Should I call him?
And then say what?
I haven't talked to him forever. BUT I HAVE THE URGE TO
I NEED TO!
2007-03-02 08:04:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't lower yourself and call him. You can send him an e-mail saying what you think of him and the rumours and don't write it too nice, just be polite and tell him you're disappointed that he spreads those rumours and as of now you will not be bothering him anymore. That's all, no more! A person like that is someone you don't need in your life. He doesn't want anything to do with you, he has shown you that much, now it's your turn to let it go. After the e-mail, you have to be totally silent. Surround yourself with people that like you and move on. It will hurt for a little while, but trust me, it'll stop hurting. If you persist in calling him, he's making a fool out of you because he's not the nicest guy. Either that or extremely immature. There are lots of nice guys around you just need to give Them a chance.
Good Luck
2007-03-02 08:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am so sorry,
But this guy has the nerve to call u a whore!!!!!!!!!!!
What I would advise u to do is to set him straight.{don't matter how u do it public/private}
If u still like him and u 2 belong together u will find your way back to each other.
Try and find out what he thinks bout u{use a friend or someone u can trust}
and then go from there!
I wish u the best of luck!!!
2007-03-02 16:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound exactly like a friend I know. She's been called wh*ore by her boyfriend, but she was still crazy about him! I don;t understand how a person can degrade like that! Don't you have dignity? I mean, love may be a strong feeling, but dignity is more important. And I guess you already know what opinion he has about you, if he called you like that!
2007-03-02 17:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the satisfaction of reacting to his idiocy, and rumors.
Don't call him! Don't talk to him...put it behind you and move on. Someone who would talk about you like that, obviously has no feelings for you. If he did, he would have emailed you or asked you out by now.
It's ok- there is someone out there who is just right for you.
2007-03-02 16:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, u must be young. If he doesn't respect you enough to just say he's no longer interested and instead is talkin' about you and spreadin' rumors, F**K him. You'll get over it, its plenty dudes out there that would treat you better. Stop goin' after a**holes
2007-03-02 16:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bossdz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answers the same as TD Jakes' Let Him Go! What say y'all to this?
bro. tony
http://groups.myspace.com/truthandsoul
Let it go for 2007..
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you ........
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents
....
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed .......
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself
and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"
then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!
Currently listening :
10 Questions for the Dalai Lama
By Peter Kater
Release date: By 01 August, 2006
2007-03-02 16:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by William-Anthony B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and this guy should just go out for a cup of coffee and than you can tell him how you feel about him and see if he feels the same way about you.
2007-03-02 16:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's a jerk off, don't call him . show him that you can do better
i would go to school with the baddest outfit on with my hair lookin rite, and make him want me. lol
2007-03-02 17:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call and talk to him. He probably still likes you but he is just nervous. Just keep calling until he picks up.
2007-03-02 16:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO!!! He is trying to politely tell you to leave him alone!
2007-03-02 16:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by GP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋