superficial girls?

Question

i go to an all girls school and all the girls are so superficial and all they care about is how they look and stuff like that. i'm not like that and i dont wanna be like that. how can i be who i am without looking like 'the loser who doesn't shorten her skirt?'. and also in my group of friends, they are always complaining about how they're having such a 'bad' day. and i feel like saying 'you don't have a problem, there are other people in the world who have problem that are a million times worse than yours..' but yeah i don't know should i tell them how i feel?

i do have my group of friends who i generally like, but sometimes they do complain too much and sometimes they don't like to compromise. but they are nice and they could be a lot worser! also i'm very happy with the positive feedback! so its all good!

Answer 1

Definitely keep it up! it's good to know that not everyone is peer pressured to change their personality to be simply liked. you're on the right track! i also share the same experience of having to be annoyed by others' complaints when they exaggerate the seriousness of some of their problems.

Are there any other similarities in opinions and interests between you and some of the girls? Maybe you can join a club and meet people with the same interests and minimize your attention on their negative comments. I'm sure, or i hope, not every girl in your school acts this way. gd luck!

Answer 2

Well, GOOD FOR YOU! I think its great that there are still young girls out there who arent worrying about sex or trends, and are relying more on their own thoughts and feelings than what everyone else thinks. GOOD FOR YOU! That said... Always stay true to who you are. If someone makes fun of you for being different, just tell them you dont want to be like everyone else. That you WANT to be different. There is NO FUN in life if everything is the same. Someday you are going to be an amazing person, and you are definitly on the right track. I truly hope you stay like this. Good luck