I have been friends with Persian man for 2 years now. We have recently started dating and become more serious. He has told me about his past and dating life. The excuse he uses for being so "promiscous" is that well that is just how Persian men are. That most Persian men he knows are "promiscous" or "players" until they meet the woman that they are ready to marry and settle down with. This all sounds absurd to me. But if I were to have had been with as many people as him (or even a 1/4 of the amount of people he has been with ) he would be disgusted with me. Only honest helpful answers please. My concern is that if we marry he will still be a "player". I personally do not feel culture has anything to do with it and that he is just that way period.
2007-03-02 07:42:02 · 4 answers · asked by one 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
ok. a few tips
1. persian men are not generally players! i am one of them and i know tons of them and no, they are not players. the culture and the way we are raised by our parents doesnt lead to being a player. although i do know some who are. but they are very few!
2. again i know some guys (not necessarily persian) would just say they have been with many girls just to blow their own horn! he might be doing that
3. if he has known you for 2 years, i wouldnt think he wants to mess the friendship up! if you are getting serious he might be rising up to the challenge of making you like him as a partner. talk some sense to him and then see what he says. tell him you like him. that makes him relax a little. then ask him to be totally honest with you. remind him of the fact that if he lies to you and you find out, then you can never trust him again. but if he tells the truth, even if the truth is hard to take, there might be a way for you to work it out!
hope all this helps you out.
persian men are not generally jerks. but you might have found the odd one! just go careful. dont judge him before he has had a chance to defend himself!
good luck
2007-03-02 11:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mohammad 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If he is muslim probably he is never ready to settle down with other religion. They can spend years with same woman and not settle down. And even is he say he is not muslim, double check! this people are like animals they only like their own specie.
2007-03-02 15:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nikita . 2 · 2⤊ 7⤋
i perfer persian rugs
2007-03-02 15:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by STORMY K 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
they lie like RUGS!!!!!
2007-03-02 15:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 5⤋