A lot of us have peolpe in our lives, who will pretend to be your friends. Do you keep letting them into your life ?
2007-03-02 07:36:14 · 13 answers · asked by comicbookdrawer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When
you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will
say
or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they
die.
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a
stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfill their work is done. ! The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come
to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make
you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They
usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love
is blind but friendship is clairvoyant
2007-03-02 07:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three notes on that question:
We don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.
No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
LOL
2007-03-02 07:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by bluei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 03:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are friends who will use you and friends who will not. Keep the friends that will not use you and get rid of the friends that will use you and walk all over you.
2007-03-02 07:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No on can use you unless you allow them to. Some people like being used.
2007-03-02 07:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out they used you then no.
Although I must admit I have readily used people and knew I was using them. It's wrong but we all do it sometimes.
2007-03-02 07:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely up to you. Take control of your own life.
2007-03-02 07:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i use to have a friend like that who would use me for my money. you shouldnt be friends w/ those kind of people. i just told her that i didnt want to be her friend anymore because she owed me back big time and she was a **********
2007-03-02 07:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that friend can treat you back again you drop that person
2007-03-02 07:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happaned once yes...if they continue using you no
2007-03-02 07:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋