So, I had been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years, since I was 18. We recently broke up, due to my own jealousy. He had been going out with other guys and would not answer my calls when I called, saying he'd rather talk in private. I was hurt by this, added to the fact he turned his phone off on me, and I left him a voicemail ending it. Honestly, did I think it would *really* be the end? No. I thought he'd wake up to see that I was hurt.
Since I saw what I did was wrong, I've apologized. I've driven home (i live at a university 2 hours away) and tried to make it up to him. He tells me he still loves me, and is extremely hurt that I'm hurt, but he just doesn't feel the same anymore.
Last night, I spent the night at his house. we were laying in bed, and I thought he made progress. But he tells me he just doesn't feel that "flutter" anymore. It kills me inside. I was not talking to him for a while -- he contacts me. All I want is us to be able to work through this...
2007-03-02 07:27:57 · 4 answers · asked by windlar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey hunni i am going through the same right now!!!
me and my bf have too recently broken up and it killed me inside..
We have been together through alot and he used to tell me
how he loves me but doesnt feel the same..
nor think it is working out due to all the pain we have been
through he said the love got overshadowed by this.
I really loved him and he kept me hanging on telling me not
to give up on us.. said he would never hurt me again..
all the usual bullsh*t, i tried to end it last week when he
stared to argue with me but as soon as i said i couldnt take
this pain anymore.. he said he loves me and that im the
one.. then we slept together..but then this w/e i was waiting
all night for his call coz we arranged a night in..
but he never called when i called him he didnt answer..
and later sent me a txt saying he was on way back from a
party he put in (i love you) but he never did turn up,
the next day he never called then at 11 at night i called him
and had a go for hurting me and being disrespectful..
he said he didnt love me, so we ended it. I really dont know
what to do now, how could he lie to me all this time?
We agreed to stay friends.. and watch a dvd this w/e but
will we ever get that love we once felt so strong???
everyone said he isnt worth it, i will find someone who
will treat me right and love me and always be there.
Well maybe they are right.. but i have never loved anyone
like i loved him i dont think i will..
So i think its best for you and me to stay single for a while..
it will hurt but you will soon see that life goes on,
stay friends if you feel you can,
i dont know maybe it will bring us closer maybe it would show us that we were never ment to be.. but you both need space right now.
I believe true love never dies..
sometimes absence makes hearts grow fonder
You will find out in the end. if it was ever ment to be.
sadly sometimes we fall out of love and there is nothing you can do to get it back.
good luck to both of us eh ;) xxx
2007-03-05 22:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Recently went through, or am going through something kind of similar. My advice would be to go your separate ways, if it is meant to be it will be. NO CONTACT. Talking or whatever will just make it harder for you to move on, and harder for both of you to figure out if you want to be together or not.
2007-03-02 07:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by yg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its meant to be youll get back together just not today he needs space and so do you...you can not be over protective over him..both of you are still young and need to experience alot of things in life....take some time away stay friends and maybe even date
2007-03-02 07:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by sandy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is not into you he is not into you don't make yourself available to him for just sex, move on you are young there is someone out there that will appreciate you .
2007-03-02 07:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋