well i`m one of the lesbians girls and i just wanted to know what u people think about us...how do you see us.

Answer 1

I can't see where someones' sexual orientation has anything to do with how I think of them unless I am, at the time, personally involved with them. While it's true that I'd be a bit offended if someone I had to work closely with insisted on always telling me the details concerning their sex life, that includes anyone - gay, straight, bisexual or Carrot Top.

As long as people treat me the way they want to be treated themselves, I'm okay with whoever they choose to be.

Answer 2

Dear Alexia:
I have Lesbian friends and non lesbian female friends. I take everyone on an individual basis. The point I would mention I do not appreciate the homosexual/Lesbian agenda of pushing what they believe to make laws as if this is something special. I say if you wish to live as a lesbian all the best to you. I will be a friend but am not interested in any political agenda. I happen to believe that you should have rights to inherit property like a heterosexual couple and benefits, if you a truly a couple..not just a passing fancy. I find it interesting that a lot of high profile names had "marriage' ceremonies to only get "divorced " or fight over assest and then go "marry" someone else. They are human too.
I will be interested to see How Rosie O'Donnell does as she has had the longest lasting family relationship..Ellen Degeneras does not have as good fortune in that area.
It is like anything you do your thing and don't try and push things on me and I will respect you.

Answer 3

I guess as a straight male...with a little curiosity...NOT THE PERVERTED KIND. I am fascinated by the female body, in pretty much all aspects. I have always been that way. It can do absolutely amazing things (again not meaning perverted things). I am attracted to it, so in a way, I could understand why another woman would be as well. I have no doubt that I could learn a few things about satisfying a woman from lesbians. I have never been offended by lesbians I have known. Gay men...that was a little different. Lesbians, no.

Answer 4

I can't understand it sexually - I mean I have never had a sexual interest in women and it is hard to understand what you have not lived.

I do understand on the ohter hand why a woman would 'want' to be gay in an intellectual and emotional way.

The type of sex men want most of the time is gay sex anyway. The vagina is just another 'option' for them and our other oracifices are just as acceptable or prefered - how bloody insulting. If they use a woman the same way they would use a 'male' lover aren't they bisexual in their habits, if not in their choice of gender anyway? I beleive in this sense and in many more ways women are increasingly degraded by men. Women's differences in intellect are seen as inferior by men as well, etc. So dumping men altogether makes perfect sense to me - even if I wouldn't do it.

When/if you can find a man who is caring, courteous, and 'hetersexual' in his sexual pratices with a women - then I think you must be crazy girl! Men are so beautiful, wonderful, sexy, strong, passionate, so 'male' - when they are nice.

As far as my real opinon of a lesbian woman goes....... She is her own person and I am not her judge - nor is she my judge. It is her business and between her and her God. We are all equal.

Answer 5

I see you as a scared woman who's running from your own femininity. That somehow you have grown to believe that being feminine is something less than, that it is a sign of weakness. It's an interesting dynamic, that Lesbians don't want a man and some downright hate men, yet they emulate them. They dress like them, talk like them, walk like them...and I know that's more of the more masculine lesbians. There are now more "lipstick lesbians" who are more feminine. But I still don't get it. Like I've said before, show me a person living a homosexual lifestyle and 99% of the time I can show you a person who has been abused and/or neglected by the opposite sex parent or close persons and have been emotionally cut off by the same sex parent or caretaker. It is no coincidence that a lesbian woman who has been abused by men and closed from maternal love would seek affirmation from another woman. But because that other woman is not the mother, then the feelings are perverted and misguided.

Answer 6

when I see really young girls that claim to be lesbian I feel as though are confused little girls who just decided to jump on the lesbian band wagon since it seems to roll around more than it used to. I feel like maybe they think that sex with men sucks because the high schoolers they experimented with well sucked. Women know what women want so they get in with other women who can please them. I dont really have an opinion about older women who say they are lesbian ( I mean mature adults). It seems silly to me when I see a girl who looks like a dude with another girl, but thats just because it is not my cup of tea. I dont however make rude comments or stare because to each his own. I am strictly dickly, hope that helped

Answer 7

i am straight but i have gay and lesbian friends that i love dearly. from hearing them and the way i see it is kinda the same. there are some gays and lesbians who try to talk themselves into being straight, rather it be for there family or there own mind, but they end up losing because they or you guys can not help the way a woman or a man makes you feel, i have heard countless of times , a man has hurt me for the last time and i am going lesbian. and if everyone would admit it we all have a little in us, but most won't admit it. i know i have asked people if they have ever thought about it, most say noway, and i said you know i am straight but i have thought about it, myself. people are to afraid to say how they really feel about the same sex. i sometimes wish i was was because not enough mothers tell there sons about what is in a woman's heart, us women maybe treated better if they did. and yes i told my son of a woman's heart. hes not perfect but i feel he has a better chance of keeping a woman than if i didn't. thank you!

Answer 8

i really don't have a problem everyone is human i was cool with this chick and she is a lesbian but we failed out because her girlfriend thought we were together but i had to let her know strictly men but if u feel like u feel do u thang no but can't stop and no body can't hate u u only could just be urself

Answer 9

I don't really care. I judge people based on how they treat me and others and their personality. What I don't get is that if you don't like someone who is black or a lesbian or who is different than you are, you are automatically labeled as racist, sexist, and prejudice. Even if that person asks for it by being rude.

Answer 10

Personally, I don't think of you in any special way your just another person. I had a few lesbian friends and they were cool nothing really different from females except that they liked females.