2007-03-02 07:17:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you look ugly i dont think there would be more then one person liking you because your fat, ugly, and you stink
2007-03-02 07:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by kryztal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so first you should pray about it and ask yourself, am I ready to be with anyone right now?
How old am I? Is my life in order? What are my needs?
You shouldn't be with someone if "you're" not ready. Try not to focus on anyone else's needs or wants but your own, when choosing a companion. Don't get involved with someone just because you want to show off, or because everyone thinks you should. This is your decision, remember that.
Now, you should have standards when it comes to dating, or seeing people. Such as, good morals or Biblical standards. Apply these standards, and it will filter out who you should or shouldn't be with.
When seeking a companion, you should always think, is this someone I could be with the rest of my life? You can answer that by getting to know them well before being with them as a b/f or g/f. You should also take into consideration the other person's feelings on this; do they see you as a possible spouse?
Lastly, if you have more than one person who likes you... after applying your "standard filter" to sift through who you think you may be happy with, then it's just up to you who you think is best.
This is where you can take advice from mostly family and some true friends as to who they think you should be with, or perhaps who they like best out of your chosen ones.
Remember; never get involved in a relationship that you think you will always have problems trying to work out, they usually end up broken. Divorce is not possible; keep that in your mind. When you marry, it is settled, so make the right decision first!
Also, you should think about your life. Are you where you think you should be? Do you have a good relationship with God, if not, how can you work one out with another person?
Fix your problems first, before involving yourself with another person. Remember, relationships take compromising, that means, there are probably going to be times where you can't have your way with the person, you may have to meet in the middle.
Lastly, and probably most importantly... pray about it. Seek God's will in your life. Let God choose who you should be with. Stop looking for a person to be with, and let that person come to you. If God wants you with someone, you'll have someone. Let only God's will be done, and not your own.
Remember, people aren't perfect, God is.
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Salvation:
All are sinners. Jesus came and died, was buried, and rose again to life so that anyone who would believe, and repent of their sin, and accept Jesus into their heart, could be saved and go to heaven. It is a personal decision, only you can make it. Life is about a decision, what will yours be?
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2007-03-02 07:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be naive and see who has the right intentions for you, some guys just want to use girls. You should follow your heart and realize that there are so many fish in the sea and a lot of time to pick the one that is the perfect one for you.
2007-03-02 07:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by I (HEART) CHAOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im just like that rite now too
wow u should pick the best one the one thats has the personality not the looks cuz wta happen in the end if he is an *** and in most cases that happens u know wta i mean but yeah or just play THE GAME AND DO IT BETTER AND GO OUT AND HAVE YOUR FUN LET THEM TAKE U OUT LET THEM CATER TO YOU JUST DONT **** THEM GO DO UR THING AND TELL THEM UR NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN RITE NOW U REALLY WANT TO CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL FAMILY AND HAVE FUN BEFORE U GET TYED DOWN TO THAT ONE GUY FOREVER U FEEL ME
2007-03-02 07:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer amongst guys, but chicks haven't caught on yet, work them both. Keep them far away from each other.
2007-03-02 07:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by TheChaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i'm in the same situation and I know the feeling is aweful. Try to follow your heart.
2007-03-02 07:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by sexinessloveness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the best thing is not to play anyone along our you'll probably break one of their hearts and if u like one of them mayeb go out with them if thats what u want well hope that helps
2007-03-02 07:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want either of them to be in a relationship? if not, then enjoy it knowing that more than one guy likes you
2007-03-02 07:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose who you like best. They can't get mad at you for not likeing them.
2007-03-02 07:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ahh! It's Maddie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of it, it won't last!
2007-03-02 07:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Welshdragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋