2007-03-02 06:57:11 · 26 answers · asked by LON 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've been in love with a close friend for ages and it's such a dilemma. You don't want to ruin the friendship but what if????? I'm playing the cowards way and accepting happiness that she's still, and probably always will be, a very close friend.
2007-03-02 07:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my friend and I were secretly in love with each other for a while and one night it all came flooding out and we told each other how we felt... now we are having the most amazing relationship ever and life couldn't be any better. I think it helped that we were friends first, by the time we got together, we knew so much about one another that we skipped that awkward stage when you might find little things about them that may annoy you. Luckily for us, there isn't any but that could change your view on them as boyfriend/girlfriend material in the long run. Also, sometimes the IDEA of having something more with a friend is more appealing than actually having it happen, so be careful that you don't ruin a good friendship.
2007-03-02 16:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by KATIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes I have he is from Wales yes i tried to tell him but i told him he too was shocked at first but OK about it. Anyway well now he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend form England. I mean we are still friends i care alot about him but he's happy and so am I that's all that matters. I'm glad he has a girlfriend cause if not i would never have met my darling.
2007-03-03 08:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by tacha w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah. I stood by as he dated other women, went out with him to help him get his mind off the women that dumped him, we took vacations together, etc. It didn't ever evolve into anything BUT when I met the man I was going to marry, he told me he regretted not being more than friends. Timing is everything and his really sucked.
2007-03-10 08:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! After 23 years of friendship we are both happily married and have been for almost 4 years! Definitely recommend!
2007-03-02 15:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Thayne H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm there now. I hinted around a little I could tell he's not on the same page so I left it alone. I'd rather have the friendship.
2007-03-09 14:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by seventeendiamonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always a tricky one, gain a lover, or lose a friend. What does one do?
Go for it and hope for the best, then you'll know one way or the other. Unrequited love is no fun.
2007-03-02 15:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! And he is married and so am I so I cannot act on this (unfortunately)! What do you do? You are forced to be around them all of the time. It just really makes it hard.
2007-03-09 09:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and ended up with a brocken collar bone, leg ,arm, but they can mended.
2007-03-10 04:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BUT IT MADE IT SOUR I NOW REGRET IT BADLY I LOST A GOOD FRIEND BE CAREFUL
2007-03-09 10:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋