This didn't happen to me so dont worry. I was just wondering cause my friends are weird and they just came out the blue with that question.
2007-03-02 06:55:18 · 24 answers · asked by Super Girl 2009 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have known more than one woman with rape fantasies. I have even role played this with some. fun fun fun!
Though if it ever really happened I am sure it would not be good.
Sounds like you and friends may harbor some good imaginations.
As for you high moral judgers...it was just a question. Get off your gay high horses and address the question!
Talk about hypocrites!!!
2007-03-02 07:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sex makes you feel good, whether you want to or not, it's just the nature of it. That's how seduction works, getting the other person aroused, even against their will, until their body works against their intentions. On the news last year there were stories about some sports camps where guys had broomsticks shoved in them and then were forced to get aroused at the same time, sometimes until they came. That doesn't mean they liked it. In fact, coming in a situation like that can really mess you up in the way you feel about yourself and about sex. It's using your own sex drive against you. It's why girls sometimes feel guilty about being raped if they were made to feel good and not hurt. Not a weird question at all, actually a very serious one.
2007-03-02 16:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: no.
Longer answer: Rape is about power, and just as there is power in controlling the pain of others, there is also power in controlling the pleasure of others. At times it's part of the intimidation to touch a victim the same way a lover would, either because the assailant actually fancies him- or herself a lover, or because it's yet another way to overpower a victim. Many survivors of incest and sexual assault live with guilt because their bodies responded in an aroused way. Physiologically maybe it has something to do with the fight or flight response. Arousal during assault does not mean the survivor enjoyed it-- it means that in addition to being betrayed by a fellow human being, she also may feel betrayed by her or his own body.
And to anyone who suggests a woman accept that rape is going to happen and try to enjoy it-- Your ignorance is hurtful and offensive. Rape is not a lemons to lemonade trick.
2007-03-02 17:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by jtrash 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The body responds. The nervous system does not differentiate between rape and love-making. The physical stimulation provided by both actions has the same effect.
To a certain extent, you would have "enjoyed" it physically, on a very basic level, but in all likelihood, you would not have enjoyed it emotionally.
2007-03-02 15:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its more than likely the case that you wouldn't come, simply because you'd be in shock at the forcefulness of it. Much like if you've ever broken your arm or your leg. Immediately after or during the accident, you don't usually feel a thing due to the shock, it only hurts after it wears off.
2007-03-02 15:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So many people answering this question and overlooking your disclaimer just shows how sexually obsessed people are. I guess I am to, but then so are you for asking that question. Personally, I can't imagine a woman having an orgasm during rape. Rape isn't a pleasurable experience, I speak from personal experience.
2007-03-02 15:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, hon. It's just a biological reflex. It was a cruel act that harmed you and your body just kicked out a reaction like the knee jerk thing. I strongly suggest you talk to a counselor about it. Best of luck to you, and never let that creep bring down your opinion of yourself.
2007-03-03 13:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Emily H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you did, that wouldn't make what happened any less wrong. Our bodies are designed to respond when stimulated a certain way. Unfortunately, victims of sexual abuse or assault who derive some element of pleasure from their experiences may assume this means they wanted it or deserved it.
2007-03-02 16:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think she was lying about being raped or she just does not have idea what the heck she is talking about? and i dont think she understand what the rape actually means, because if she was being raped( taken by force) so she cannot enjoy, it was done against her will and w/force. Would someone enjoy that ? NO. So if she was taken again her will by her guy friend or boy she new, he was pressuring her for sex, but she was not really sure about sex, so he started anyway and since she was not sure about sex at the beggining, she started to enjoy while in the intercourse, if she enjoyed than she eventually would orgasm.
2007-03-02 15:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
No that dosent mean you enjoyed it, its a fact of life and it happens even when your raped.....
2007-03-02 14:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋