If the average woman sleep with the average man on the first date does he lose respect for her.?

Question

Or Vice-Versa

And what are the chances of a strong future relationship.

Answer 1

people sleeping with each other on the first date don't respect each other to begin with. you can't lose what you never had.

Answer 2

I don't see any way of rationally answering this question.

first, defining the 'average woman' and 'average man' is impossible without more specific criterion. How would you propose to define such a thing? what kind of average? what population are we talking about? once all that is narrowed down perhaps we can look at population polls that ask that specific question. but then you have the problem of whether such polls are really reliable since they ask a very situation sensitive question.

Hence the second problem, it depends on the circumstances. peoples judgments are not based entirely on internal belief systems but also on the intricate details of the situation. even if they say in some poll they believe x, their actual attitude might be radically different when faced with a specific situation.

Answer 3

Of course he looses respect. If I apply for a job and they say "yea, you'll be fine, let's go." my first reaction is, maybe I need to look for a better job than this, one that I have to fight for to get. If they interview me for an hour, and give me an answer and three days, I feel like I've got something special. It's the same in relationships. I'm a single guy in pretty single world, and we're all looking for the very same thing, the very best. I want the best girl that I can attract, and if I get her on the first night... probably I could get an even better one that would take me a few weeks to get.

The problem with all of us is that we can't associate absolute value to people, we only associate relative value to them... and the dating game is a game of trying to determine the value of another while trying to make ourself look the most valuable. ... and really, that's why we don't want to sleep together on the first night, even if we both want it, because it lowers that relative value that I feel for you.. which lowers my respect for you. Yes there are exceptions, but every good gambler needs to know the odds.

Answer 4

you are able to desire to play with the taking part in cards you're dealt. If that concern was once so risky (nightclubs are particularly now not the region the place you're extra probable to fulfill the cream of humanity), go someplace else. Vote alongside with your wallet. which you've gotten the means to additionally do a lot on the internet to entice information to this type of ladies and men that go there. for people who do your examine sturdy you would be surprised at a) how a lot you should accomplish with this "social media" and b) what share persons sense the equivalent technique you do. you're entering into basic terms slightly a techniques with the aid of wailing approximately how stressful shorter men have it. in many of the worldwide, females and babies have a much extra gruesome existence than you do.

Answer 5

It depends on the people and the circumstances. If one or both are sloppy drunk at the time, yes. Neither respects the other afterwards. If it is a mutually agreed to tryst with a clear and sober understanding that it's "just sex," no problem. Each person respects the other and all go away happy and (hopefully) satisfied.

Answer 6

its depends on the person. usually, they begin a relationship and go from there. Others may regret the experience especially if there was alcohol involve or the purpose was to have a one night stand. The idea of losing respect for a person they sleep with on the first date is usually a scare tacit to keep people from having premartial sex.

Answer 7

Never have I ever felt so drawn towards a man on my first date, to be wanting to sleep with him. I have to be drawn to him. That takes more than 1 date. It builds the anticipation too. It's certainly not just about a physical attraction. It's also developing a certain kinda trust. I don't take these things casually. But if it happens naturally, who am I to judge anyone. We were both party to it.

Answer 8

In most cases, I think yes, but there are some times when you hit it off so well, one thing leads to another and it's just feels right to.

So trust and feelings can usually tell you that the other person doesn't do that on all first dates or they may have never done it before. At least that's what I have experienced.

Answer 9

I suspect that any man that sleeps with a woman on their first date never had an ounce of respect for her to start with.

Answer 10

In terms of whether one has the idea that the other is 'easy', putting out on the first date, yes there would be loss of respect. That they themselves were involved in the action ALSO on the first date is irrelevant to them.