My friend hasnt had a g/f in about 2 years, he's been out with girls but never managed to develop anything out of it about 2 months ago he told me he had fallen in love with me, but seeing as though i already have a b/f i knocked him back and then yesterday he was like "...girls just dont seem to like me" so i said to him "dont worry, there a plenty of fish in the sea" but then he relplied "no one wants my hook, maybe because my maggot it too small" - obviously you can understand what he meant when he said "maggot" - i just laughed it off awkwardly by saying "im sure its big enough" but then he replied "it obviously isnt big enought for you"
now im thinking a guy's thing is meant to be all his confidence right? so maybe his confidence has had a good knock back - either that or he wants me to find out if his "maggot" is too small LOL! (he's the shy sensative type)
what do you think? Is this a sign of his state of mind?
2007-03-02 06:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look honey I know I'm not a guy....well wasn't last time I looked anyhow....lol..... but I can tell you this....don't fall for his very clever "feel sorry for me & prove me wrong" chat line....I've had the same line fed to me & nearly fell for it.....I understand why you asked the guys this question because they'd see exactly where your friend is coming from.....being guys an all......anyway, don't take any notice....his state of mind was fine when he was making a play for you even though he must be aware that you already have a b/f.......Gosh! you have to hand it to them don't you....very clever, well most of them think they are....
2007-03-02 06:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being conned ,and by what seems to be quite a clever conman.
Shy & sensitive my a**,your being played,someone who is shy would'nt make personal of there privates.
He most probably does'nt have much luck with women because he's such a d**khead.
Walk away or it will all end in tears,he's in love withyou yeh right and i'm the president of America.
As you are close friends and nobody else is interested your his target .
He has plenty of confidence to tell you he loves you,and the hook bit a well exacuted answer to an obvious reply.
This man has more personalities than Rory Bremner,and changes them to suit the game he plays.
Don't be a fool to yourself kick this sucker to the kerb before you do something you regret later.
2007-03-03 10:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has self sympathy isues. I think he feels you may be sorry enough for him to test his little dinkle theory. Absolute crap. As a friend you should tell him to get a life, grow up, throw his porn away and start acting like a man. Please dont be a mug, he's not a very good friend if he tries this BS with you. Good luck. x
2007-03-02 07:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look don't be a tease give him some sex and make him feel like a man this guy is trying to get you in bed and if your any kind of nice girl you would give it to him.even if hes bad at sex lie and tell him how good he is .won't mean much to you but it will help him alot and who knows you might like it
2007-03-02 06:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by kukuiman2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a horrible story!
His comment was dumb. Your answer was dumb.
And now you say "a guy's thing is meant to be all his confidence"!! Seems to me like you both think that's ALL that matters!
I think you both are nasty! Y'all go together!
2007-03-02 06:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a decent guy. This is his true color. Ur just his need bcoz he has not found any girl in 2 yrs. be careful sweet heart!
2007-03-02 19:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Help me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up, and that you like him as a friend but thats it if he cannot accepot that then maybe you shouldn't be friends anymore
2007-03-02 08:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to sling his hook, he's just trying it on.
2007-03-02 07:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, let him have it
2007-03-02 07:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋