My Bf said my best friend told him I was just using him...but my best friend denies ever saying it! I don't know why my Bf would lie bcuz he would gain nothing from ending our friendship. But I know my best friend really good (obviously)and I don't think she would lie either. but one of them has to be.. help!! or should I just tell him I"m not and not worry about it?
2007-03-02 06:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It might just be a misunderstanding. Your best friend might have said something that your boyfriend misunderstood or thought meant something else. I'd let it slide, but keep an eye open to see if something like this happens again. That way you'll know one of them is out to ruin your relationship with the other one.
2007-03-02 06:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like some guys think that women are using the man so I think instead of bluntly asking you if you are using him he just said that because he was afraid to come out and ask if you are... Just tell him you are not using him and leave it at that... But at the same time I found out my best friend is not really what she is cracked up to be... So either or your basically in a uproar without knowing who is telling the truth just sit them both together and say I dont know who to believe so I am telling you that I am not using you in front of both of them and maybe watch the reaction and if one looks really strange then you know who is the one lying... But I would just sit down with the both of them and say look I am not using my boyfriend and then that will just be it... But sometimes best friends arent really truthful... I found that one... My best friend is a lyer and talks behind my back some times so I have kept my distance from her for a while now... And my boyfriend well that a whole another subject too and he is actually my best friend I tell him everything just about... Ok I hope this helps...
2007-03-02 06:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by starrynightbreeze2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get them both in the same room and be like "look, he said you said blah blah blah" Then you'll know. I dont take anyones side because ive been lied too by best friends and boyfriends, so if there both there, the truth will come out.
Make sure theres cake. Cake always makes things better.
Good luck
2007-03-02 06:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! First of all, try not to worry about that in case one of them did.
There are many bad posibilities: 1.- your boyfriend don't trust you and he worries about little things. 2.- your best friend might likes him. 3.- you can not tell him what to do. What you can do is just dismiss both, try not to be curious or to worry about that matter and probably in the future the true will come through and then you have to get rid of one of them for sure.
2007-03-02 06:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dont_do_that 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatev. i'm sick of the drama!! obviously your not a "best" friend.. bcuz you would believe your "BEST FRIEND" over a guy any day!! and i don't think he lied about it. I think he misunderstood what i said! and if he did lie about it, his motive would be; to get you to admit you were using him. Besides.. What would I have to gain from telling him that?! i would have less to gain then he would!!
THE BEST FRIEND
2007-03-02 06:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-30 02:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want you all to themselves............We know that best friends get in the way most of the time. He has pinned you against your friend to see if you will take his side on all issues that will come up in the future!
2007-03-02 06:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by t_buck70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be inclined to believe my best friend. How well do you know this guy? How long have you been together?
Tell them you're not using him, and then watch your back.
2007-03-02 06:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK my grandpa has an old old saying. GIVE a man enough rope and he will hang his self.
2007-03-02 06:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your best friend fancy your bf, wanted to split you two .
2007-03-02 06:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋