I have to explain better my problem to deal with this people
yesterday I was invited to a friends party
we have some beer and good time
but spoil from some gay and lesbian performance
I hate when this people they start to tell everybody
the sexual tendency so what happen next I just walk aways
from the party and my friends follow me and grab me
and they ask me;
hey dude!! where you going?
so I tell them I can not deal with this and I want just to go home
the problem a guy and girl they have hear my remark
and we begin a fight I tell them are sick people they tell me
I'm a bigot etc etc
I can not just deal with this people and I hate when they
emphasize the fact they are gay
now is to hard to ask if you want be gay just shup hell up
and keep that for yourself without stress the people balls
with your absurd way to advertise the fact you are gay or lesbian?
you don't see normal people go in the street to cry out
I am a woman and I like men or vice versa
2007-03-02 05:25:21 · 10 answers · asked by Gunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look my Psychology background
is just fine!!
2007-03-02 05:33:08 · update #1
The only way to solve this issue is to stay away from the homosexual people who are making you uncomfortable. It is their right to announce their sexuality in pride or boastfulness etc.. But it is also your right to walk away from it if it makes you uncomfortable.
Something to always remember is that your comfort and happiness is no one's responsibility but your own. If your friends like to hang out with gay people and gay people make you uncomfortable, then find new friends.
That said, I would also suggest considering why it makes you so uncomfortable.
2007-03-02 05:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think for a moment about exactly what these people are doing without thinking of the fact that they are gay. Are they kissing? Hugging? Holding hands? Ask yourself this: If it were "normal" people (This is very insulting, by the way) doing the exact same thing would you think it was flaunting or simply being? People do, in a sense, shout that they like men/women. They kiss in the street and hold hands, they wear wedding rings and talk about their spouses or lovers freely. Unless your gay acquaintances are actually having sex right in front of you, you are looking at them with a double standard. Ask yourself why it bothers you. I am completely lesbian, but when I see straight people kissing, I usually think it's cute or sweet. Is what you're seeing really different?
2007-03-02 05:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some people have to just announce the fact that they are 'different' because they can't handle being put into a 'normal' category, y'dig? Being 'normal' might make them break a nail....or something.....I've known quite a few gay people who were not even like that. They were nice, interesting people who I got along with that happened to be gay. Some of them you could tell, some not so much. Sorry, I don't think this was much help.
2007-03-02 05:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Allypooh*~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you're dealing with is somewhat time-honored. It does no longer mean which you're lesbian. You physique continues to be changing and hormone point shifting. as long as you do no longer "label" your self as a lesbian then ultimately issues will stability themselves out. BTW.... maximum folk of the two sexes have a level of attraction the two techniques. while you're acquainted with the "Bell-Curve" you recognize that it plot all human characteristics from intelligence to shoe length. consequently, 10-14% of the inhabitants could be "advantageous" heterosexuals, and 10-14% could be "advantageous" homosexuals. actual everyone else is in between to various ranges. virtually each and all of the "in-betweeners" are pulled to the heterosexual component as a results of norms of society. the place you're on the bell-curve is additionally examined. the place ever you ensue to be, study to stay with it, and don't be so puzzling on your self and others.
2016-10-02 06:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by matusz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically, there are more straights than gays, so you need to meet more people. You don't have to be with them at parties, just be accepting and keep quiet. I don't care one way or the other what people do, but agree that they don't need to tell the world what they prefer. Move on and meet new people. Best wishes
2007-03-02 05:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Straight" people flaunt their sexuality all the time in ways that are so ingrained and socially acceptable, that it does not seem like flaunting. We take it for granted because we are so used to seeing it. You have a right to be irritated by this behavior, but people also have a right to promote their sexuality however they choose...that's life and it's part of being mature and transcending the "normal" constraints of society to become a better human.
2007-03-02 05:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you are homophobic... other people who dont like watching gay acts dont freak out like this. Only the ones who secretly wish they themselves were trying something like this. Maybe you should look deep into your emotions and thoughts and figure yourself out before judging others.
2007-03-02 05:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're a homophobic bigot...get over yourself...and next time you're invited to a party stay home.
2007-03-02 05:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if you don't want to be around homosexuals, ask your friend if they are inviting any to the party before you decide to go.
be cool...
2007-03-02 05:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from them if it bothers you that much....Oh, and please dont make "How deal with homosexual part 3"!!!
2007-03-02 05:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋