Almost all the girls in my class are different from me. They wear perfume and short skirts. They put on makeup and talk about innaprpriate thing that they shouldn't know at their age. They even walk up to boys and say sexual comments! They are way to young!! It's like they're being made into sex slaves for older boys and men. How can I fit in?
2007-03-02 05:07:06 · 35 answers · asked by Hearts of Fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't have to fit in. Just be yourself. I'm sure that's what everyone will tell you, and it's true. Why do you even have to worry about it? If you're not interested in what they're interested in, you don't have to pretend you are.
2007-03-02 05:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, you sound very young and I understand where you're coming from because I was just like you and i used to say the same things. Its ok that you are different because that means you're an individual. It might feel like you're alone and you have no one that can relate to you but there is always someone that can and you will make it through. It will also make you stronger in the long run and you'll be more in touch with who you are. So its ok to be different!!!!!! That's what makes you YOU!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 05:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vonne W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to become friends with them, but don't lose your own strength. I wear perfume, and I`m 12. At our school, we arent allowed to wear short skirts OR EVEN PANTS, but they might just mean all of it as a joke, and you might not know the full story of it. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-02 05:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ari ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think you should just be yourself, dont worry about fitting in. those girls might be already having sex, you dont want to end up pregnant do you? no i didnt think so. just do what you feel comfortable with, and not all of the girls are like that so make friends with the ones that feel like you do. good luck
2007-03-02 05:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Aura 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that those girls are to young to say and do the things that they do... then don't try to fit in with them... you should just continue to be yourself and when your ready to act and dress like them, then you can... until then... continue to set a good example...
2007-03-02 05:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG.... Why would you want to? Obviously those girls are more worried about sex than anything else, and that IS NOT a good way to behave. I say try really hard to find some friends who arent so sex crazed and hang out with them. DONT feel pressured to fit in with these girls... If its not you, then dont force it to become you. Good luck
2007-03-02 05:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hun- if they're acting like that you should not want to fit in! People should respect you for who you are. They might get attention from the boys, but that's not the type that they should want.
2007-03-02 05:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever u do don't fit in with them. Just because they do it doesn't mean you have to. Be you and no one else. If you feel it's too early then your right so walk your own path and don't turn at the voice of others.
2007-03-02 05:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to fit in with these girls? Why don't you find some girls that are more like yourself instead of trying to be like somebody else? You don't need to be friends with your classmates. You are there to learn. Make friends somewhere else.
2007-03-02 05:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Maid of Constant Sorrow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be different from everyone else. What you are experiencing is known as peer pressure .
Basically what you are saying is that you are the only normal one in your class. And you have a problem with that?????????????????
If everyone in class was jumping off a bridge would you do that?
Just go on and be normal
2007-03-02 05:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by bm8211520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋