I don't quite know what to do?

Question

Several months ago I fell for this guy who happens to be younger than me. I didn't want to tell him right away so I had to confide in someone. So I told my mom. She kept it for awhile until one Friday morning my sister asked who I like. When she got down to one particular name i sort of gave it away. She told him that morning when we got to school. He came to me during lunch saying" Your sister said you like and some **** and some other ****" I never knew that he steps to a girl like that and kinda of took me by surprise and I accidentally said something I should have( it was not anything bad) He stop talking to for days. Then when some knew bilingual chick comes he all over her but yet he is telling me that I'm the 'punk'( his choice of word) for not being direct with how I feel. Then he stop talking to for weeks. Now that the chick is gone he still doesn't really talk to me like he used to. His cousin that take the class with us asked me if I really like him. I really really do.

But one day while we were all sitting in class he telling guys how he has this friend whoe house room and everything he has went through but never tried[to have sex] the girl. I know he isn't talking about me . The girl really doesn't give him the time of day. i'm really thinking about going to him but he told my sister boyfriend that I am not his type. but when we are sitting in class sometimes almost every few minutes he glances at me. I in the 12th grade and thinking about giving this up because soon I am out of school where he will soon be a junior. I willing to accept the fact that i may not be his type but why is it that everytime i seem to glance around especially during lunch his eyes is all up in my mouth.

Answer 1

Social ego meets man's own personal ego. Could be that he would love to do a few things to you, weather its love or something more animal only he knows. Socially thou he might have people putting a dark mark on you making it not a good idea (repitation wise) to give you to much. It happens, its school. You being a senior thou makes me think that ether you just seen as being out of his league or under it. I couldn't know without going to your school myself. This is common, I've been on the recieving and giving end of it thru-out school and even in my more professional envornments. Your adult now and its time that you try and only except people into your life if there willing to go thru some hoops. And if this guy doesn't have the "balls" to let peer preasure go and talk to you then he most likly isn't worth your time anyways. And if its just that he doesn't have them to talk to you then you need to be worried even if you get in the relationship how well his poor ego can handle it. Don't just take someone eying you as good dating material, make them work harder. Then again if your new to the whole thing we all have to get our scars somewhere, just here to warn you he sounds like a scar waiting to happen.