2007-03-02 04:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, of course, since you're married it's all about compromise. Does your husband not want to accept anything from your parents or does he just want to stay with his parents forever? That's the #1 thing you need to find out. If you're desperate to get rid of them and leave their home then it looks like divorce.
2007-03-02 05:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkerton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you and your parents set this up with out him being involved? Is it the house or the fact that your parents are doing this for there daughter? If you are married you and your husband should buy your own house together and your parents should not be so involved in your marriage. If you are not ready to stand on your own 2 feet then you are not ready for marriage. Your husband is right you are going to label him to the family as a much-er and not a good provider that he obtained a home because of his in laws That will never be his house and in an argument you and your family will remind him of it. Your guy is a smart man.
2007-03-06 04:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your husband refuse to leave his parents house? Does he take care of them? Are they handicapped in any way? If not, he, hopefully, is a grown man and should start acting like one. Part of growing up and getting married is getting out on your own two feet. If he is unwilling to do this, you should take him to marriage counseling. I can't imagine you can have a healthy marriage with a man who lives with his folks. If he won't go to counseling, you should still go.
2007-03-02 05:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the houses needs to be sold...so keep the best one and use the money from the other to fix up the one you will live in. What a sweet deal to have such generous folks....so long as there aren't long strings attached to that gift.
2007-03-02 05:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is not a correct answer to the question you asked .. however i would remind him that you are married and marriage is all about compromise.
maybe a combination of some things will work .i would try and talk to him about it . maybe tell him that if he don't want to live there he needs to have a reason. if the reason is good enough i would tell him you are gonna rent it out or sell it . i would have to tell him that i want to live in the house my parents bought for me . just as badly he wants to live in his parents house
good luck
2007-03-02 06:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your parents gave you a house? wow thats really nice!! if your husbannd refuses to move into that house with you then id tell him, fine stay here and ill be contacting a divorce attorney. that is so retarded. assuming your parents wont be living with you, they just gave you a house for free and your husband would rather live with his parents? wow!!! tell him to grow up!! hes married to you not his parents. time to cut the umbillicalcord!!
2007-03-02 05:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact the home is interior the mothers and dads call, they own the abode and all expenditures could be born by potential of the mothers and dads. If the mothers and dads insist on making their lives depressing, they could enable them to to coach the mothers and dads a lesson. If he leaves, the mothers and dads would be to blame for the month-to-month money besides as approximately 8% in expenditures whilst the home is offered (6% actual materials fee plus approximately 2% in different expenditures). because of the fact the housing industry is at present not superb, it would probably take 6 months or extra to sell the abode and could not likely get extra desirable than became paid plus costing them $15,000 or extra.
2016-10-17 02:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your house and he has his. that's messed up that your husband doesn't want to be a real man and get a place of his own. he's being babied too much as a grown man. i say you move into your own place. and leave him with his momma. he needs to grow a spine and get a place of your own. and i say you move in to the house that your parents gave you. i wish my parents gave me a house. i'd be in there real quick.
2007-03-02 05:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may need to find out what's going on with your husband. Have you tried Couples Counseling?
2007-03-02 05:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by fdm215 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this mean that you & he are living with his parents in their
house and he won't leave to live alone with you in a house your
parents gave to you ??
This sounds very strange..
What is wrong with him ?
Perhaps you should consider divorce...
2007-03-02 05:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋