She's married but on the verge of divorce with a toddler son. but i dont wanna be a daddy, not now
2007-03-02 04:46:21 · 15 answers · asked by Davileo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would shy away from that hornet's nest. You want probably a physical relationship, and she needs nurturing and baby help. That's a train wreck on the verge.
2007-03-02 04:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's married and on the verge of a divorce, it must not be good. If your not ready to be a daddy then don't take on the responsibility. That means do not get back with her. I don't know the reason why she is getting divorced or I could give you more advice. But It's simple, if your not ready to be a daddy, tell her that your not ready for that type of a relationship yet. Good Luck!
2007-03-02 12:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy Lou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. This is the makings of a real mess. Keep it a clean break so you don't revive past problems or create new ones. If she has a child, there is the potential for things to affect your ex to a deep extent - which by extension won't be good for the child. There are plenty of fish in the sea especially if you are clear being a father is not on the radar screen.
2007-03-02 12:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex, is an EX, for a reason. Don't get involved if your not up to being a role model and make sure your doing it for the right reasons.
2007-03-02 12:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be involved with someone with a child unless you're willing to be involved in the kid's life.
Remember, she's an ex for a reason. Try to remember why.
2007-03-02 12:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you are horny or you wouldn't even be thinking of doing something so stupid.
Go find another girl, the reason you are divorce is still the same for both parties.
2007-03-02 12:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer in NO! If you care one bit for her or her child you will stay away and let her try to work out her marriage.
You are selfish if you go through with this.
2007-03-02 12:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not people do it all the time in fact I married my exes best friend
2007-03-02 12:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by rlobe432000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if you don't want to be a daddy and she has a son.
2007-03-02 12:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Willow_Elf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love her then you need to ask yourself will i be with her for a long time to rise her child as my own and become a father to the child...
2007-03-02 12:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by bigman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋