**note this is advice not for me**
I found out that my girlfriend (4yrs) and mother of my 19mo daughter is planning to leave me. And go back to cleveland from lexington KY, where we are now. i found a whole folder from Ryan homes with floor plans and everything. she already has the property picked out to build on! shes in an employment contract that holds her here untill the end of the school year (shes a teacher). Ive known since a week before new years. (merry christmas to me) But i dont know how much longer i can keep it to myself. Should i wait to see what/if she tells me? Should i admit i know? Should i just leave her b4 she leaves me? I just don't know what to do. any advice will be appreciated.
2007-03-02 04:42:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My name is Beck, and yes to EVERYTHING.
2007-03-02 04:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Laura. That's pretty crapy of her to do to you. I would say that's a cowardly way to leave someone and also says that she has no heart to do it this way. I would let her know that you know after you make plan B. Then be happy she did that to you now instead of years down the road. There are some great woman out there that would appreciate you. Make sure you draw up legal papers to see your child too!! What was she thinking to leave a State without even thinking of the pain it will cause your child. Some people are just self centered and you can't change it but never lower youself to their level. Sorry you had a bad Christmas!! I give you a lot of credit though because I couldn't have held it in for more than a day....
2007-03-02 12:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Laura C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-02 12:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking is the best thing to do. Don't get confrontational, just ask her. Sit down and talk and see what she says... Set aside about an hour and talk things out. See what you can do or see why she wants to leave...
Since you know already, there is no need to walk around in agony and there is no need for her to pretend that things are well between you 2 also...
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-02 12:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you talk to her. Have you considered that she might not be leaving you, but surprising you with a new home? Perhaps she is just homesick and looking at/dreaming about those houses makes her feel better? There are really many things it could be other than her leaving you! Good luck, and I hope things work out for the best.
2007-03-02 12:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bug's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erica
2007-03-02 12:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Softball_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brit
2007-03-02 12:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by twnkltoez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My name is Jacqueline and you should wait to see if she tells you and if she doesn't tell you then you need to let her know that you know whats going on.
2007-03-02 12:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by yup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polly hates crackas
2007-03-02 12:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prepare to leave. When you are ready, admit that you know. Don't admit it until you have your things in order.
2007-03-02 12:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by srena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely confront her. No reason to let yourself get played
2007-03-02 12:50:03 · answer #11 · answered by wackadoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋