I see those little facial expressions that we all cover up, see them very clearly.
Some people don't see them. This is common pop psych knowledge, by now...
anyway, I can't get over the way people are so fake, cause it's right in my face.
How do I rationalize their two-faced lying so I can get on with my life?
2007-03-02 04:40:19 · 5 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
PS, I KNOW the world would be a worse place if we dealt with others 100% honestly... I just want to know how to forget about it, is all.
2007-03-02 04:40:57 · update #1
Life is too short to carry on that kind of burden my friend. Time to let the judgments sit on somebody else's shoulders. If it bothers you that bad then quit bottling it up and state the fact that you can see right through them.
You probably have a gift yet to be recognized as discernment. "knowing the truth without cause or reason" I used to look up at the sky and ask "What do you want me to do with this information?!"
Some of it you chose to deal with and most of it you just have to let go. It takes practice though. Don't waste time on trying to rationalize or analyze any of it. Bottom line: it's their choice what comes out of their mouths and how they behave. We have no control over it.
2007-03-02 05:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're making it sound as although social conditioning et al is an issue quite than a answer. Posit: we grew up as sensible apes who became social as a way of survival and that stepped ahead right into a state-of-the-artwork attitude to social and psychological 'norms' that encourage us to be freed from the 'animal' undemanding instincts that led animals to compete to the demise. study 'lord of the Flies' via Golding and word the truth, there become no golden age, it has yet to go back. although, enable me communicate about that given the undesirable blunders people have made, that is a real message of wish! The 'organic' you isn't a being you opt for to satisfy, the advancing, learning and 'higher' you, almost easily is.
2016-11-27 00:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being full of the truth. Truth is light. And liars are in darkness.
They both can't occupy the same space at the same time. So, you can leave your house! Cause whenever you stand for truth (light), darkness (liars) will flee- they know you will expose them and they don't want that! They may try to set you up to fall or to embarrass you; but the truth will always expose lies. Hold your head up and step out into life. It's a dirty game game out there at times, but hanging at the crib, you'll miss out on those that are shinning bright like you are. you don't even know they're out there cause your locked in! Intimidated by a lessor power. That's why God placed the moon + stars at night , so darkness know who reigns and in control.
2007-03-02 04:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by kelsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't pay attention to them. I am a very private person and I don't like a lot of people or the way people act, but I don't let them affect me or my life one way or another. I am polite, speak when spoken to, and go about my business. You can't let people who have nothing to do with your life affect you negatively. All that truly matters is your family and immediate circle of friends....other then that...who cares what other people do? Relax, be yourself and let others be whoever or whatever they choose to be.
2007-03-02 05:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry or wast your time on how fake someone my seem your not living for them. take nothing personally.
and be truth full to yourself and go on live you only do it once??
2007-03-02 04:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋