I need to know why my husband's ex-wife hates me soo much. I walked into my husband's life -he was separated with her for 2 years already, so I'm not the cause of their marriege to begin with. Lot of people say, cuz I'm prettier than her and also that I married him. I want his ex to stop being so mean to my husband . His ex- is using their young children as her weapon against my husband. We already filed a contempt agaisnt her not following the court order, but still she doesn't let him atleast talk to his children. I need advise. Thanks.
2007-03-02 04:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're going to need to talk to an attorney. Your husband's ex wife is not following the court orders and it's up to you husband to make sure they are enforced.
My husband's ex hates me also. I think it has to do with the fact that I've found happiness with him and she couldn't so there is resentment there.
Try to stay out of the picture where the ex is concerned. It's easy to get sucked into the drama but it's not worth it. Let your hubby handle it.
2007-03-02 04:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a good lawyer to deal with her in the court room. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change her personality. She is an unhappy, bitter person. Only she can change that. As for her using her children to hurt their father, that is despicable. She is thinking of revenge, not her children. All you can do, is be the bigger person and not stoop to her level. When you see her, be polite and respectful. She is jealous that her ex moved on with his life as she has obviously not.
2007-03-02 12:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the old "if I can't have him, no one can" adage. She's showing her immaturity and lack of care for her children. Not much you can do but keep doing what you already are doing by keeping a cool head, take her to court and keep the relationship with your husband and his children away from her drama.
2007-03-02 12:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are doing the right thing, going to the courts.
Why haven't you filed for full custody?
She can't stop him from talking to his own children. Unless, he's not allowed to, legally. If you two really care and love your children, you won't put them through this tug-of-war battle.
2007-03-02 12:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to leave that situation alone.. She is angry and she is lashing out at him... You and I both know that she is using the kids but until he gets tired of being treated like this she is not going to change. Jealousy is something that is never going to change until you and your husband put your foot down and say you won't take no more
2007-03-02 12:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is abusive, and using the kids as a pawn is the lowest form of mother there is. For shame. I hope you can get the courts to ask her to seek counseling because she needs it bad. You may have to take all three of you parents in for the counseling to get it right.
2007-03-02 12:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋