Is any person worth being labled a "homewrecker"? Is any person worth your self respect? Is any person worth the drama that comes with being with a married person even if they leave their spouse for you? You end up with someone you cannot trust, people labelling you, ex wife/husband drama, step children drama..the list goes on and on. What possible reason could make it all worthwhile?
2007-03-02 04:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-02 04:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The cheater often paints their spouse as uncaring or other failings and the sympathetic connection often hooks a person into the relationship. It is exciting being sneaky and it makes the nuturing side of us want to solve their problems with our relationship. Sometimes someone is so lonely they don't care who is giving them the attention and some is better than none. Finally, some people don't care who they hurt. It's all about getting what they need.
2007-03-02 12:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by digitaldgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would being "the other" man/woman always mean that you want the person to leave their spouse for you? If you're smart, you certainly don't want this to happen - for precisely the reasons you have listed. But one can still enjoy the person's company for a while. Not everything in life has to have "strings attached".
2007-03-02 12:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz not worthwhile 2 be the other man/woman b-cuz if sum1 is cheating on sum1 else with u, then even if he/she leaves that other person 4 u, he/she will cheat on u like he/she did the other person. itz not worth it & ur right, that person will end up labeled & hurt in the long run. karma exists.
2007-03-02 12:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetheart <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I could never be able to stand being "second" but hey, thats just me!
2007-03-02 12:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worth all the confusion and all the pain been there and done that and you usually get hurt grass is never greener on the other side
2007-03-02 12:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by shortyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have to tell you man, it feels awesome. unless you have an emtional problem. stupid emos
2007-03-02 12:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be right...
2007-03-02 12:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by jacarig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your love........and the bond that goes w/ it.............
2007-03-02 12:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋