what do u tell your child if they have not been invited to a party by someone in their class?

Answer 1

Explain that just because we know people does not mean they are our best friends.
You can explain when he/ she has a party, they will invite whoever they want and not the meany that didnt invite your child.

Answer 2

I know it must be upsetting for the child and also for you.

If they were the only child in the class not invited I might be tempted to have a word with the mother of the child having the party - just say you are sure she didn't realise that your child was the only one not invited and any chance an invitation could be forthcoming.

If there were only a few children invited then I think you have to b honest with your child and say that you don't always get invited to things even if you want to be and that there will be other parties where they get invited but other kids don't.

Answer 3

My son is 8 and he goes to a lot of parties but some times he is not invited to one or two. I tell him that they maybe friends in school but just because he wasn't invited to the party doesn't mean they don't like him. Maybe they only had certain amount of room in their house for the children. Then i remind him that he doesn't invite all his class mates to his parties but it doesn't mean he doesn't like the mates that he didn't invite to his!! It worked and he isn't bothered. Let it go over his head so that he doesn't end up paranoid. There is generally never anything in it. We, as parents, have to draw the line somewhere don't we? xx

Answer 4

I would tell him/her that the person who didn't invite them sucks and take your child out and do something really really fun on the day the party is on. Then I would have a party and not invite them.

Answer 5

"You`re not invited to this party that Kelly is having, life is tough, but I`m sure there will be other parties that other kids will invite you to". Your child can`t expect to be invited to every single party there is .. I know small kids like parties, but sometimes it`s impossible for the parents to be able to afford to invite everyone!!Not to mention, you don`t know whether this child plays with your child or not.

Answer 6

That they get to make choices on who comes to their parties and that everyone else gets that same choice--and that they probably could only have so many people over and for whatever reason, they weren't one of them--but it doesn't mean the party giver DOESN'T like them and not to harbor resentment, just understand that this party didn't include them--and they DO get invited to OTHER parties--don't dwell on the one they DON'T get invited to.

Answer 7

Tell them that only so many can be invited and not to get upset as there will be other parties perhaps he /she will be invited to. Is it you who is upset that your child has not been invited ?

Answer 8

I'd throw my little girl a party and invite people if that was the case. And I'd invite the person who didn't invite me to their party.

Moral of the story: If you treat someone good who wronged you, they'll end up feeling like crap.

Answer 9

I will convince like this: Dear thank god--u have not been invited-we had an appoinment or we have already planned to got to some X place--we will enjoy there-forget it( but at the same time if the child is not called because of any bad behaviour etc i will convince him to change his habits to be ivnvited by other friends)

Answer 10

Most children's parties are for a limited number of children. Very rarely 30! It's upsetting for the child but something they are going to have to get used to.