2007-03-02 03:17:51 · 19 answers · asked by unknown 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do you get her back emotionally?
2007-03-02 03:20:48 · update #1
It means she is only there physically and has completely left the relationship in her heart.
It really depends on why she feels that way. But a good first step would be counseling. You can also try dating her all over again, take her out buy her flowers or other small gifts. Treat as if you have just fallen in love with her, compliment her often. Be there for her.
2007-03-02 04:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says that she has left you emotionally you will have a hard time getting her back. You have to reconnect with her and get back in-tune with one another. If she married you then there had to be a point at which she was with you emotionally. Find out what changed about you or her and adapt to that and just be with her again. Its easier said than done though.....
2007-03-02 03:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by jacarig 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it means there are some unresolved feelings, bad feelings. when this happens u need to start communicating, see how u can change things, and make them better. means she has some hurt going on, and she doesn't think there is any love left. therapy may work. she has no faith in the marriage, so as a defense mechanism to avoid hurt, she is telling u and herself she has no feelings left. but anything broken can be fixed, if both parties want it. unless there is an affair going on and she has fallen in love with someone else.
2007-03-02 06:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the circumstances of your relationship. If you've been verbally abusive or non-supportive of her in the past, it could be that she doesn't trust you enough any more to be able to give herself to you emotionally.
It could also mean that you aren't giving her enough attention/support/love and she's fallen out of love with you.
In either case, you need to sit down and talk to her- give her your full attention and let her explain herself...you might also want to get some marriage counseling.
2007-03-02 04:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It basically means that she is no longer " in " love with you, but loves you in the sense that she has been with you for a long time or loves you like she loves a friend or so on.
If you don't want to loose her i suggest marriage counceling befor you loose her.
Sit dowm and talk to her and let her know how much you love her and want your marriage to work and suggest counceling and see what she says about it, if she refuses then she has probably moved on, doesn't want it to work, or is already having an affair!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-02 06:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means that she feels for you like any other person and is no longer "in love" with you. She's prepared emotionally to leave physically.
2007-03-02 03:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dovie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't join the WIMP club. If she has told you she has left you emotionally you can bet your last dollar that someone else is knocking the bottom out of that thing. Move On.
2007-03-02 03:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is numb towards you. That means not only emtionally but no feelings what so ever. She either needs to say she will try to move past all that she feels you have done and get over it or you get out of the misery before it hits you.
2007-03-02 03:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good indicator that she is on the hunt. Find out what is wrong in your marriage and fix it together or you will be seeing a lawyer eventually for a divorce.
2007-03-02 04:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have changed your way with her, so she can feel that way.........to get her back emotionally, you work more than when first trying to date......good luck...
2007-03-02 06:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by pinkcari05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋