Should I let her go or Fight For Her?

Question

my girlfriend of six months broke up with me cause I showed up at her house even though she has told me that she doesn't like it a few times but I was there to surprise her with very nice Gold chain with a Diamond pendent I got for her. Anyways she wasn't home when I got there but I did leave right away, I sat in my car and park on side of the street cause it was snowing really bad and I live about 60kms from her. so I was waitin for it stop and hoping that she will come home before then but didn't and send me a text message telling me to go home cause she wasn't gonna be home anytime soon. I didn't and then she called me freaking out about how I should get off her street so I did, anyways she text me later that night and broke up with me, and I have been doing accepting it but I really like her and I really would like to have her in my life and I just don't know what to do. any ideas guys. I AM CRAZY ABOUT HER 15 points best answers

Answer 1

That is called Stalking, and it is illegal (in the US).

I don't care where you live, you don't show up unannounced or uninvited if you don't live with her. That is just rude. I don't care what kind of bauble you brought.

And as for the snow- You should've thought about that before making the trip! DUH.

You don't hang out waiting for someone that didn't invite you over. That's creepy.

Answer 2

Your feelings are very important and I do understand to an extend how you feel. On the other hand her feelings are also important...if doesn't' want to have anything to do with you and wanted to break it off with you, then that is her decision and you must not fight her...the harder you try to get close to her the further you will push her away.

You must step back...accept her decision and leave her completely...no phone calls, no meeting ...nothing...in few days, you will find out as she will come to her sense, she will either call, text...something or it will be all quiet...

If you pursue..she might call the police and then you will be in trouble and those things...will follow you for a long time..once you have a record its hard to walk away...there are a lot of girls out there that will appreciate a gold necklace and a guy to wait up for her....She is NOT your cup of tea. Sorry about my answer you might not like it but the truth has been spoken...

Answer 3

How can you figh for someone that doesnt want you?. WAKE UP!!!!! Let's turn the tables a bit here... What if you broke up with a girl because it just wasn't what you wanted? and you KNEW it wasn't what you wanted, but SHE kept calling you, trying to "buy" you with material things , showing up @ your house when you already told her it was over? What would it take for YOU to decide you wanted to be with her again? Would you say "Oh, well, I guess she isn't going to leave me alone so what the heck, ok, i'll just give in! I DON'T THINK SO!! You'd think "What's wrong with this psycho b****? What part of LEAVE ME THE H*** ALONE" doesn't she understand??? Honey, when the movie is over...you get up & leave the theatre! You already KNOW how it ended, right? Sorry, but sometimes the guy don't get the girl, and sometimes after you let go, you realize there was a good reason he didn't. Look ahead! If you keep looking back, you'll never know what you missed when you weren't looking AHEAD of you! ;-)

Answer 4

I had a problem similar to this, except I'm a girl and I had an issue with him calling me, not coming to my house. I broke up with him last summer because I was really mad because he would call me a million times a day and have absolutely nothing to say. Sometimes I seriously think he called me so he could say "Oh, I have to call my girlfriend now" to whomever he happened to be with. But now I kind of miss him, and I'm seriously considering asking him to be my boyfriend again. So I'd say, yeah, go for it. If you want her, any girl would appreciate the effort of you fighting for her. And even if she does reject you, you'll at least know that you tried everything you could.

Answer 5

The dating process was never intended to become an alternate form of entertainment. But, was, and is, intended to be one of the first steps in the weeding out process, when choosing a life-time partner. That being said, you must already know, that there are several levels of emotional attachment. Interest, Infatuation, and Love. Judging by your message, you have undoubtedly moved up to Love during the last six months. It does, however, sound as though, she has not. And, unbalanced relationships rarely work. Jesus put it this way, "Do not be unequally yoked.". And, being a carpenter, he would have had an extensive knowledge of how to properly create and fit a wooden yoke. Here's why that is so important. A proper yoke is designed for two animals to work in partnership, to accomplish the same goal. To pull a cart to market, to plow a field, to pull a tree stump loose form the soil or to transport materials and supplies. Whatever the tacks, they do it in unison. If one doesn't pull their load, both animals suffer. The yoke causes wounds that won't heal, broken spirits and eventually death, to one or both. Christ was intending to illistrate, that if we attempt to enter and maintain an unequally yoked relationship, not only will you both suffer from it, but, the chances are that your relationship is bound to die, eventually. I think, that you are already experiencing that process, and the pain is all to real for you, even now. I suggest that you seek God's face, and put yourself in the center of his will. He will partner with you , until he finds that perfect woman with whom you will share your yoke. And, listen to Jesus when he says, "Take my yoke, for it is easy, and, my burden is light.".

Good luch, and God Bless!

Answer 6

Sounds like you are not giving her any space to breathe. I would be a little freaked out by that too, especially if she told you she wouldnt be home anytime soon and you stayed anyway in hopes of her showing up. If you want to get and keep a woman, you cant smother her.

Answer 7

I could understand that she may have gotten a bit upset because she had previously warned you she wasn't comfortable having you at her place,but for her to not give you a chance to explain yourself when you even had a surprise gift for her and of course,to top it all,break up with you--just like that?!? I think you deserve better,you deserve somebody who would value and reciprocate what you are willing to give,I'd say walk away.If you are for real,you are a great catch,I hope the right girl makes you realize that.Good luck.

Answer 8

She keeps telling you that she doesn't want you to come to her house, and she has told you not to be on her street. Sounds to me like she isn't interested in you any longer and that you need to move on.
Also your actions can be construed as stalking, and you are acting in a very possessive manner. My suggestion is that you leave her alone before she calls the police and presses harassment charges.

Answer 9

Plz u have to wait for Her.because girls are like that.They never easily accept ur love and affection.First of all they want to get some trust about u.once u found to be honest ,then there is no question of broken.Wait...

Answer 10

THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LET HER GO. YOU MIGHT LIKE HER ALOT BUT SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU. iT CRAZY TO BE IN IT BY YOURSELF. SHE ONLY GOING TO KEEP LETTING YOU DOWN. IM SORRY TO TELL YOU THIS BUT YOU CANT FIGHT FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESNT WANT TO BE FOUGHT FOR. SHE DONT DESERVE YOU IF SHE CANT EVEN TALK TO YOU FACE TO FACE. FIND SOMEBODY THAT CAN RETURN WHAT YOU ARE GIVING TO THEM. FOR THE PART YOU WANT HER IN YOUR LIFE. IM GONE TELL YOU THIS YALL CAN BE FRIENDS. IM GONE TELL YOU THIS. YOU ARE A TREE. YOU ARE CONFUSING YOUR LEAVES, BRANCHES, AND YOUR ROOTS. tHIS GIRL IS A LEAF. SHE ONLY SUPPOSE TO COME AND TEACH YOU 1 LESSON AND GO. BECAUSE THAT WHAT LEAVES DO. THEY GROW AND THEY FLY ARE CRUMBLE AWAY. KEEP YO HEAD UP.