2007-03-02 02:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by paul g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how about move on and find someone who will love you....life is too short to waste time with someone who doesn't love you...call the lawyer...good luck
2007-03-02 02:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Paul, if she has stated this in words to you or at least in writing, its time to break the marriage and move on, especially if its been said that there is no hope of saving the relationship and spraking the love fires again. Its not fair to either of you to continue in a relationship that has ceased to be fulfilling. At this point your only roomates. Its hard to do for you because you still have the emotional attachment. Start your thought process now on accepting what you have to do, this will prepare you mentailly for the emotional let down we all experience in times like those. Maybe even start making female friends who might be prospects for dating after you get your emotional house in order.
2007-03-02 11:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know!! No one knows from this. There's not enough information here to give you a good answer. You need to say your ages, if you have children, and how long this has been going on. Do you know why she says she doesn't love you or is this just the way You feel? Take your time and fill in the details as well as you can. You can do it.
2007-03-02 11:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children? No, well enjoy.
She probably loving someone else buddy, what were you doing? Working too much, providing for her or putting her through college?
She doesnt deserve you, theres plenty of women out there. Start your life over buy with the knowledge of the old. Love stinks Good luck
2007-03-02 11:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by pauljpray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you wish with your life. Just because your wife does not love you should not have any bearing on what you do with your life. If it does then you need a therapist.
2007-03-02 10:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a question we all ask ourselves
How much does he/she love me
We will never know.
But being practical ... one has to understand marriage / love is a give and take ... it is how you handle relationship pure and simple
it is how you negotiate.
I would suggest read on Allan Pease famous book .. he has given good insight into female / male from different perspective anthropology, social
2007-03-02 11:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by coolGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More info please.I have been told by many ppl that have had long term marriages that they had their ups and downs.And sometimes fell in and out of LOVE with ea. other.BUT, they stayed together and worked it out.Can you and your wife go to marriage counseling together?And maybe also see the counselor seperately for your own emotional health?
2007-03-02 11:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by april showers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional assistance, to find out what's actually going on in your life. If it's a problem you are able to fix........then fix it.
If it's something that you're unable to correct.......then move on into a life that will bring you joy and peace within yourself.
2007-03-02 11:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is beyond repair, then just move on.
I know it seems inconceiveable, but its just something you gotta do. I believe that if you "fall out of love" with someone, you were never in love with them to begin with.
I'm sorry about that though.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 11:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you get out of the situation, your mind will be more clear and you will see that you can love again and be loved. Right now, you're just stuck. I'm so sorry! It sucks.
2007-03-02 10:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by A B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋