What are the criteria women look to choose men.?

Question

Is it just their looks or attitude or something else.
And also do women get attracted to men just like some crazy men get attracted to women?

Answer 1

Looks are what first attract us (after all, our hormones are looking for the father of our babies, right?) But other qualities overrule looks when we're mate-hunting - for me it's the confident swagger... not cocky, but confident. To me that indicates inner strength and perseverance.

As for character, honesty & sincerity are #1. If you lie to me, you're just lying to yourself, and that cancels out confidence. Be a straight-shooter and, though you may push some girls away, you'll attract the ones who admire honesty - they're the ones who will be honest with you.

Sometimes we get caught up in crazyness when we look for a partner - we make the mistake of thinking someone "wild" is exciting (that lasts about a month before the tears fall) or we think someone "mysterious" is a challenge (until we find out there's no mystery at all) or we take up with some loser believing we can save them and they will change for us. Only time & experience can make us aware of those repeated mistakes.

In the end, we're all looking for someone we can be comfortable with under any circumstance - not always on guard or wondering what the heck they're thinking. We're looking for a best friend who knows how to keep us interested (for the rest of our lives!)

Answer 2

1st there has to be physical attraction. After that they are looking at personality. If the relationship continues it is commitment,trust, and loyalty. Not to mention friendship. The best thing to do for a woman is to listen to her. Do that and she will stand by you through thick and thin.It takes time.Some people men and women get physically attracted to the same type of person over and over again and they may be crazy people but they don't see it until it's too late.

Answer 3

A biological attachment or compatibility is important than having mere looks an inducement to a relationship. “One man's meat is another man's poison”, in this instant, attractive appearance is not an asset but substance and mannerism is a worthwhile consideration. A sense of security has to factor in when love cannot thrive on empty stomach alone, when debts and livelihood are questionable which in the end will create a tremendous strain in the relationship

Answer 4

Of course I can only speak for myself...

The most important thing I look for in a man is him being a highly ambitious person who is willing to work 16 hours a day like me if we have to. A lazy man has only a minute of my time then I will tell him to take a hike.

Next would be sense of humor and his willingness to have jokes pulled on him constantly by ME. I full of piss and vinegar and my mate will get the full extent of that daily...

Next would be looks... of course if you find someone repulsive to look at, you will not get very far in a conversation.

I am very fortunate to have found such a person as this... he is a dream come true and I would take a couple more of him if they were out there.

: )

Answer 5

That is a good Question... Let me tell you first you will never figure what a woman want's but I can tell you... They are like men in a lot of way's. Think about your taste and what you like. Now what I do know is they like a man that is confident, Not the jelious type, Know's what he want's, is polite, And number one LISTEN'S, I can not tell you how important this is. Women love to talk it is just that way , I don't know why. If you are a good listener and you let them know you are concerned about what is going on in there life.... My Friend The World is your Oyster. Good Luck to you

Answer 6

The reasons change as women age. As young girls, it starts with looks. As teenagers, its popularity status. Early 20's, personality. Late 20's, financial status. After 30, it's the best combination of everything.

Answer 7

It can be a combo of everything but something has to click. Alot of people are attracted to something they can't have. It is the same for men and women.

Answer 8

Sometimes it's their looks and attitude. Most women have bad taste in men though. Some pick those who have good looks but hit and abuse.

Answer 9

There are basically three kinds of women:

1. Those with a "saviour complex".....they tend to go for the bad boys or as I like to call them, psyhcos.....they want to be "needed" by someone

2. Those with a "this is my life but you can come along for the ride" attitude.....they are more interested in compatable mates...what ever that means to them...whether it is just-as successful men etc.

3. Those with a "life is hard someone please take care of me" attitude...they seek authority figures which often manifests itself in older, more successful men etc.....

Answer 10

It is simply a personal preference obviously haha. In biology, we learned that people who are attracked to others, they look for symmetry in their face, and porportions. Although media has a large impact on the way we choose our mind to think.

I think it is a combination of appearance, personality and attitude. Well, atleast it is for me ;)