I feel guilty about her cooking and washing my clothes while all I do is work for money. Should I take her out for a night of dining and dancing, and then hire her a maid to make myself feel better?
2007-03-02 02:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Rowdy 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
god this place has SO gone to hell.
2007-03-02 02:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by You liked me crazy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think some women may enjoy cooking, I love being a stay at home mom/wife. It gets kinda boring sometimes, cause we usually master the cooking and cleaning technique; it only takes an hour or two. Unless you're really messy. You should just ask if she enjoys her role, if not then take action. If she feels valuable by her responsibility, then one night out is a great way to show her that you do appreciate all of her hard work. But don't focus on so much public entertainment, private nights in are more meaningful. Don't forget flowers, wine, and all those other treats we (women) love. The maid part could be offensive. If my husband hired a maid, I would probably b-slap the maid and he would be next!!
2007-03-02 10:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by mommyX4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should hire a maid, what would she do all day be lazy!!!
But I do think you should take her out for a night on the town, and let her get all glammed up!
Instead of wasting money on a maid let her go to the mall and get a nice dress and new accessories for the date!
2007-03-02 10:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by J<3R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't concern yourself with such small problems. Girlfriends and wives live to make nice meals and everything else your heard desires. Don't take this privilege away from her - you will only hurt her. Just let her know what you want for dinner and remind her to have your pajamas and slippers laid out waiting for you and your pillow fluffed.
2007-03-02 10:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you make the money...just take her out one night to a nice dinner...then she'll know that you appreciate what she does for you..=]
2007-03-02 10:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Go ahead and give her some time of fun! That's the best idea yet.
2007-03-02 10:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by christian girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh come one its all even, you work and bring the money in, she does things around the house.
2007-03-02 10:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where were you when I was looking for a husband? Hahaha. She's a lucky girl.No,let her cook...maybe you'll get desert!
2007-03-02 10:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever it takes Rowdy....Dining and dancing sounds pretty good though.....
2007-03-02 10:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ~ wherever possible, it's better to do both. good luck!
2007-03-02 10:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by PossumNight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she will be happy to know that you appreciate her.
2007-03-02 10:44:41 · answer #11 · answered by KT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋