2007-03-02 02:18:28 · 17 answers · asked by love2005wisdom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe you have already been told to leave this guy. Same guy that won't sleep in the same bed? If so where did you leave all that common sense? Do what feels right if you don't have the strength to leave him then deal with it. Its entirely up to you. You've already made the first mistake of staying with him when you found out he cheated, should have left him then. I hope you have the ability to make the right choice this time.
2007-03-02 02:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tolerate it...what's the difference between 2004 and 2002? Looks like you forgive and forget for 5 years ago so why not 3? Either way once a cheater always a cheater! If it's happened twice, it'll happen again. Do a bit yourself and make it an even relationship OR get out and find sb a bit more dependable.
2007-03-02 02:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by caravaggio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated at all why are you still with him? If you say because you love him, you don't understand that love is a two way street. There is no love between you if he is screwing other women. The only thing you can say you have is a physical commitment. He uses you until he gets bored enough and then finds some outside pleasure to hold him until boredom sets in again. He's a dirt bag that will continue to use you as a doormat until there is nothing else left in you that he wants. Sorry if it hurts, but you need to see him for what he is and get rid of him. Just remember, when he makes love to other women - you are too. Whatever he's sticking into them he also sticks into you. If you aren't into group sex encounters then you had better find someone that is satisfied with you and only you.
2007-03-02 02:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to need to find out the real details and get to the bottom of this cheating situation.
2004, is still a while ago but you want to make sure that this won't happen again in the future.
And, ultimately the decision is up to you whether you want to stay and work it out with him, or move on.
2007-03-02 02:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is enought to end a relationship. I dont see how one could learn to trust again. If you think its worth saving and so does your husband seek professional help and start working on repairing the damage. If one or both you doesnt think its worth the effort then move on.
2007-03-02 02:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him before you find out that he did it again in 2006, and 2007, and 2008, and...
2007-03-02 02:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by I'm daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell ya, I thought my husband only cheated once too, then it was 2 and then 3 and now 4 times, I can say that once they do that it doesnt change...move on...1 time shame on him...2 times shame on him again...3times shame on you...get rid of the freak
2007-03-02 02:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the difference? A cheater is a cheater. Somethings will never change. Sorry.
Forgiving him will only give him another oportunity to do it again, and again.
2007-03-02 02:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are now in 2007. What difference at this point dose it matter?
You stayed in the relationship right.
2007-03-02 02:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...hes been cheating on you the whole marriage ... these r the times you have physical proof..... Get him good he has no morals & has no clue what true love is... He also has a screwed up idea of marriage................
2007-03-02 02:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋