well i saw this girls boyfriend me and this girl used to be best friends but now we're just friends but i told her best friend now and me her are friends so we told her that i saw her boyfriend kissing his ex-girlfriend in the hallway. should i have told her???HELP ME!!!!
2007-03-02 01:57:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thx for all ur answers everybody and yea i would want to know i juz dont want to have the whole skool on my back!!!!im glad i told her it just makes me sad to tell her something like that i mean she really loves him!!!
2007-03-02 02:08:50 · update #1
of course!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 02:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its seems as if you are pretty young ( and so is your girlfriend) so I think you did the right thing. Its not good for young girls to start off your first relationships thinking its okay to cheat or disrespect one another. Right now its when you have to decide what you will take in a relationship and what you will not- even if she is no longer your bestfriend, you felt as if it was your duty to let her know. Just look at it this way- Wouldn't you wana know if your boyfriend was cheating on you? I think you did the right thing and hopefuly your friend will see you just wanted her to have some selfrespect and be aware of what was going on behind her back. You are a good friend!! :)
2007-03-02 02:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by miss1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. Wouldnt you want to know if you were being cheated on? Granted she might think you are lying but if she is a good friend she will believe you and trust in the fact that you are trying to be a good friend to her. It saves your friend from looking like an *** because her boyfriend is cheating. Boys are so dumb. I think you did the right thing by telling her. Now just try and be there for her when she needs someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on. Good luck!!!
2007-03-02 02:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by joeve13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you saw him kissing someone else, it could lead to trouble, but in the same aspect she needs to know... Every delema has two sides and not every side is going to turn out any way good... The best policy is to be honest with your friend. You may be the only one who has seen him cheat on her and he could ruin her as a person while dating her... So tell her and make sure she knows that hes a cheater... I was cheated on and several of my friends knew about it, but didn't tellme about it until it was too late... I was very hurt and didn't know why they didnt tell me... it could have save me alot of grief... could have broken up with him a long time before her actually broke up...
2007-03-02 02:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by aurorathegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a MESS,...i don't know what to say, love and guys confuse me right now. sorry sweetie
2007-03-02 02:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋