how do you stop feelings for someone after 23 years ??

Answer 1

My mother and father were married for exactly 23 years..... They have been divorced for about 11 years now... They haven't spoken once since then..... They try not to bring the other up in conversation, and try to act as though they are still angry with one another........ I can tell, however, that they still have some feelings for each other....... How could you spend most of your life with someone and just cut off any feelings you have like they never happened... it just isn't possible...
You can only move on and try to take really good care of yourself...... feelings will most likely always be in the back of your mind, but hopefully the pain will diminish after time...... I wish you all the best!

Answer 2

You don't. How can you after being intimate and sharing everything with someone for that amount of time? You'll always feel for them and no doubt always love them. But if it's to be you have to let them go. I know...and it eats you alive too. I just went through something very similar and there is no satisfactory answer to your question except you have to move on and forward. Doesn't mean they still own a large piece of your heart though.

Answer 3

u can't just stop them, they are going to be there, face the hurt, pray alot. face the truth what ever it may be. it is never easy if u lost someone u loved, the love doesn't just die, the pain just doesn't go away, its a process we go through that we have to go through. get a support system of close friends and family that u can talk to about this.

Answer 4

I wish I knew - this is what I am going thru with my spouse - says not sure if they love me or not

Answer 5

stop thinking about him and just move on to your life

Answer 6

u can never..and i think u should not..life is short..dnt waste it in customs and society sake..live it fully...do whtever ur heart says.....have a good day