Ok. I need some guy's opinion on this. My bf is separated from me by seas and mountains and we see each other about every once in 2 months. Recently, he was very upset and message me telling me that he feels that i'm with some other guy and that i've been with him for a motive all along. I want to assure him that i love him and only him and only wants to be with him but i really dunno how. Is it his insecurity that caused him to mistrust me or is it the distance between us? How do i make him know that all i want in life is him. No ulterior motive, just want to spend all my moments in life with him.
2007-03-02 01:15:11 · 10 answers · asked by Stuck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it's a little of both. What I would like if i was him. Is keep telling me that you love me and miss me.. Tell him that you went on line and asked naturedonnie and others this ? Maybe he will understand how much you care for him when your needing advice.. If he doesn't I'm sorry, but maybe you are not compatible. Long distance relationships are tough anyways..I only know of a few ppl that have succeeded; mostly military families.......Good luck though:)
2007-03-02 01:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The distance is the biggest hurdle that is causing the problem, but a certain amount of lack of trust on his part is fueling the fire. Two month periods of separation do tend to make relationships very hard to deal with. The only way I could see you being able to get rid of the doubt in his mind is if you or he could reduce the distance between you(a relocation on his part or yours?) Or the next best thing is to visit each other more often. Good Luck - most long distance relationships are difficult to survive.
2007-03-02 09:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt trust you because he is not trustworthy himself. Perhaps he has a secret and is feeling guilty and trying to blame you. my other half didnt trust me for 5 years. Just a month ago i found out something about him that would redefine my whole course of life......
2007-03-02 09:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i think its the insecurity which every love has somewhere in it. Dont know just call him twice or thrice in week & talk 2 him of whats been going on daily & talk to him about urself & about him & about ur love & Ask him share everythng coz ur his love & he's ur love ..
2007-03-02 09:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by snehil s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't trust you then this relationship isn't going to make it. Is that what he wants, for it to end? If the answer is no, then he needs to stop accusing you of being with someone else.
2007-03-02 09:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either trust ya or he don't.You should tell him off and don't give him any next time he comes back.If he truly wants you he will beg for your forgiveness otherwise dump his *** cause you will never be happy with him.
2007-03-02 09:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mean as hell& it's you fault 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a chastity belt and give him the key
2007-03-02 09:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he found someone and thinks you might too.
he is feeling guilty for what he did and no is turning it around to make him self feel better
2007-03-02 09:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by just wandering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your seperation is causeing this . Always be faithful 4 something worth wild.....
2007-03-02 09:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are a joker
2007-03-02 09:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Luchmun M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋