After she had climaxed i went to give her a kiss and she asked me if i would mind washing out my mouth first, this is the first time she has askes me to do this and i was a little put off by it, i have never asked her to do the same when she performs oral on me, not that i ejaculate in her mouth ever, as she does not like it. Should i feel bad about this?
2007-03-02 01:08:17 · 14 answers · asked by buster_medow 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I dont blame her for asking. I wont let my wife kiss me after she perfoms on me. Dont feel bad about it as it is perfectly normal to ask
now you know they way that she feels just dont try to kiss her afterwords
2007-03-02 01:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by D R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We all know that their are women out there that won't even consider the thought of providing their male counterpart with oral sex! Of those that do, some will provide the service to completion and the rest will not. However, as the male counterpart, we are expected to provide service until completion and beyond for some! I think the key here is "personal hygiene"!
We have all been there and done that! That's paramount in my mind and nothing less! So the kiss would not be all that offensive if she's done her part!
I can't imagine the difference between giving oral sex and kissing? It still involves the mouth- correct? Can't get to graphic here but I'm sure you can see where I'm going with this!
I guess you have to decide whether or not the relationship has enough meaning beyond sex and whether or not your willing to honor her request. I would definitely give considerable thought to the issue if marriage is contemplated! Sex is one of the leading causes for divorce and then it gets expensive!
2007-03-02 11:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is kinda a 50-50 thing. Cuz if she doesn't want you to do it, it could be cuz she doesn't like her own "stuff" and doesn't want to near her mouth..(cuz it wasn't clean, or she is strictly di..c.kl.y) or it could just mean she wuz talking to her friends, and they have their men do the same thing.
I say brush it off, after all she did climax...lol
but seriously, dont get all offensed by it, just asked her, why the sudden change
2007-03-02 09:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each woman is different concerning her likes and dislikes. But I think it's a little odd that she said that. I always kiss my man after he's performed on me. It's very erotic.
2007-03-02 12:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by philygrl72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is odd. I have no problem at all kissing my bf after he has done that. I mean, it's all a part of the intimacy. Maybe you should just ask her, outside the bedroom, why she feels weird about it. It isn't a reflection on you at all though. Communication is the key.
2007-03-02 09:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own preferences and it would be courteous to wash mouth out if asked BUT if she has never asked for this before I would wonder why now???? Best thing is to ask her...
2007-03-02 09:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by sue b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are young and haven't had many sexual partners, I would say this is normal. However, as you get older and more experienced, try to find someone who is not afraid of their own body. Meaning, enthusiastically tries new things in bed (she doesn't have to like them, just try them), not afraid to eat dessert sometimes, not afraid to get a little sweaty, not afraid to go outside without makeup, not afraid to taste her own juices, not afraid to put her fingers inside to fish out a tampon or place a diaphragm. You don't want someone who is uptight, they are not good partners, in bed or out.
2007-03-02 13:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Redheadinbed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you might have picked up a bloomer cricket from her (crabs)
lol. just kidding if she doesn't want to kiss you then don't do the oral on her. make the kitty cry for it.
2007-03-02 09:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by timothy c 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would be insulted..
so if she isn't going to kiss you afterwards then stop :)
if she doesn't want her mouth near it why should you put your mouth near it
2007-03-02 09:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't like my husband to kiss me either after he's done that. That's like having licked you own yourself and if you not into the lesbian thing-well that's gross!!!!!!!! Plus... I personally don't like the way it smells. Yuck- I don't know how men or women can stand to lick em. I like it being done to me though. She probaly feels like I do.
2007-03-02 09:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋