I had no interest in the new guy when he was there for me after the split up. He must have picked up on this. It was too soon. However on Sunday we met up again and there was a spark between us. We were swapping business stuff and helping each other. So really now we are meeting on the business side of things. Yesterday we spent all afternoon in bed together. It was also a laugh we had fun together.I asked his star sign and then said that's why we had a spark. He said what spark, I said thanks. He said it was therapy for me after my ex. Then last night he text me something with friend. So I got the hint and replied, right friend. But he still wants to meet up again next week for coffee...this time I guess it will be just coffee. I just know though that he is a guy who understands me and will always be there for me if I need him in the future.He has been there for me for the last year and a half texting on and off. I sort of like him now though and would like to spend more time with him
2007-03-02 00:51:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I get the impression he may be playing safe at the moment or else he might have another "friend". But we are meeting up again on Tuesday afternoon for more coffee. Any advice?
2007-03-02 00:52:12 · update #1
If you know him and are absolutely sure that he's not just doing this for sex, then spend time with him. He is probably wanting to take it slow to make sure that you are sure of the way you feel.
He's seen what you've been through in the last year and he probably doesn't want to hurt you any more...so just go with the flow. He wants to meet up, so he obviously likes you....take it one step at a time.
2007-03-02 00:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.
Don't get involved with someone who doesn't care enough about you to call you anything more than a friend. He used you, got in bed with you and played the friedn card. Coffee is just the last meeting he intends with you to make himself not look like a total ***. I say don't go. Say you have a date or something. Trust me, this guy sounds like a quality pr*ck that has made you his meat on the side.
2007-03-02 01:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by melvnews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spent the afternoon in bed with someone you "sort of like"? Maybe all you need is an f***buddy-you know, someone who you just meet up with to have sex. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to this guy and find out exactly where his head is at. You really cant build a relationship from a sexual encounter. Good luck.
2007-03-02 01:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by lucygoosy2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not to much you can do if he just wants to be your friend...If I was you I would play it up make myself look extra hot when i would go for coffee with him...Flirt a little not to much don't want to give him the wrong impression....and if it still seems like he doesn't want a realtionship keep him as a friend and move on...Best Of Luck!
2007-03-02 00:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes he might want a coffee to lead to more than a coffee and less than a relationship..relationships dont always come from sex, i know. Dont be a door mat, if you want more tell him and if he dosent i would go looking for someone else.
2007-03-02 03:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into this,or look for signs which are not there,if there is a chance of getting together with this guy then it will happen,just don't push it.Good luck,anyway.
2007-03-02 00:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by picklechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT sleep with him again, men do not sleep with women for therapy, If he likes you then insist on doing it the old fashioned way dates, commitment etc (by commitment I mean an exclusive relationship)
2007-03-02 09:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy loves you. Just have some patience and things will work out in your favor.
2007-03-02 01:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want coffee luv he wants sex off you when he feels like it. He will continue to want you to meet up for "coffee" who wouldn't............x
2007-03-02 03:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best advice i can give is wear your most sexy outfit, and if he still says he wants to be friends then he is either married and faithful or he is gay!!!!!
2007-03-02 01:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by disconipples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋