My girlfriend who lives about 80 miles away from me sent me a text from work saying everyone is taking the mick out of her because she is flirting with clients on the phone! I know it sounds stupid but should this worry me? I love her very much & at least she has been honest with me!
2007-03-02 00:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by richardwales79 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you trust her? then why worry?
2007-03-02 00:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by exo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should worry your right she is honest with you and thats what counts Im thinking that maybe if your girlfriend is a friendly person someone that doesnt like her too much is saying these things and shes decided to tell you to make sure that you understand whats really happening. So dont worry really I think that everything will be just fine after all you really care about her and she really cares about you and she cared about you enough to tell you this so stop worring okay.
2007-03-02 00:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It mind sound like pure honesty to you, but what I'm sensing is that she's telling you that they're saying this because it's true. She's feeling guilt and that is the only way to express it and make it look like she's being open about the situation. Truthfully, she's trying to make you feel better by being "honest" about things that she didn't even have to tell you...It bothers her and by getting it out in the open makes her feel less guilty. Then again...what do I know? Just speaking from experience.
2007-03-02 00:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Punkie Brewster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would she tell you that?? To let you know either she's interested in other people or that she is in high demand.
Or she could just be feeling insecure and thinking you are not giving her enough attention so she's told you that so you will turn up the heat a bit to let her know you do want her around. Show some love.
2007-03-02 00:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by melvnews 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it unless she gives u proof that shes actually been cheating but if shes just flirting on the phone she could just be trying to make more sales or people r taking her the wrong way she may not be flirting she may just be being nice and people think shes flirting
2007-03-02 00:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever worked in telesales are such like jobs? I'll have you know, a bit of innocent flirting can go along way and bring in good business, this is fab, extremely if their is a bonus scheme incorporated. I was always told that my flirting was what got me orders and enquiries in, lol.
Dont worry about it, it's a job. She told you, so at least she's honest, trust her.
2007-03-02 01:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does that mean exactly? Taking the Mick out of her?
I've never heard it before.
2007-03-02 00:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on what sort of job she does. Maybe she's just trying to keep things friendly and stay on good terms with clients.
2007-03-02 00:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds to me like she is trying to wind you up, knowing theres not much you can do about it being 80miles away, which isnt very nice at all
2007-03-02 00:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by bobbleheado5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little worried, but if you love her you will see thing through. Never make rash actions.
2007-03-02 00:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she shouldnt have really text that as you didnt need to know i think she is testing you to see what you will say to her flirting tell her if its upsetting her then dont flirt simple.
2007-03-02 00:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋