to be horny and sneaking around in my room with my husbands stuff.( movies) one night i seen her and her best friend watching a porn movie and playing around with eachother. but shes not gay. she has a boyfriend. what is going on??
2007-03-02 00:22:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Perfectly normal.
She's not necessarily gay - she's curious.
At age 13, most people have not experienced sex and know pretty much nothing about it. You can have a talk with her, explain sex, or just let her learn on her own. The fact that her friend was watching with her only means that she's not alone in the pursuit of knowledge.
2007-03-02 00:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Her and her friend are just exploring each other and exploring sexuality... it's normal, they just want to know... so I wouldn't worry too much about that at this point. As far as the porn goes, it may just be confusing her at this point. There are a lot of threesomes, forsomes ect.. out there that may lead her to question her sexuality. Instead, try to restrict the porn from her and allow her to figure these things out with her boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever. Also talk to her about masturbation and privacy.. most think to do this for boys, but not girls. Just have an open talk with her and try to let her do most of the talking so you can figure out what she's thinking.
2007-03-02 00:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lock up the movies! And you need to talk to her about birth control. You need to stand up and be a parent and take a proactive role. You said you saw her...what did you do? She will naturally have a curiousity but where she is going for information is porn tapes. We all know that is not how it really happens. She is setting herself up for disappointment if she thinks that is what it is supposed to be like. You need to work on your relationship with your daughter. You need to know who her friends are, where she is at all times. You need to have the kind of relationship where you can ask HER what is going on. The effort you put into this won't be as much as the effort you will put into taking her to the doc for STD or pregnancy. Get proactive!
2007-03-02 00:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is 13 and her hormones are exploding. Further, she is curious about sexuality. The fact that she has a b/f doesn't mean she is not gay or bi; she may be experimenting, That said, 13 is too young to be having sex with anyone or to be watching porn. Time to put the proverbial foot down Mom.
2007-03-02 00:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Fairly normal. She's growing up and curious. Most of what she sees and does is one big giggle at the moment, she doesn't fully understand it. Maybe a talk between the two of you would be a good idea...and keep your husband's stuff locked away
2007-03-02 00:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal because if she comes sneaking around in your room won't you be mad because in your room has private stuff that you don't want to her to see. And why would she and her best friend watch porn movies when it has sexual things in the movie. So ts not ok. So just tell her that its not ok and stop watching porn movies.
2007-03-02 00:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by afreaktheart 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Experimenting I guess. If they are watching pron movies then they may be trying some out of the stuff they see to find out what it is like.
Possibly time for a chat/open discussion Mom.
2007-03-02 00:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by barneysmommy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She probobly is just begging to peek or maybe someone at school said something about the movies to her. I mean i know when i was 13 i was experimenting, and for all you know maybe the boyfriend is the one implying all of this.
2007-03-02 00:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by sean m 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is 13!!! finding a porn movie at 13, of course she is going to get a friend over to watch it, This is normal behavior.
She is just learning about her body, as it is changing.
Most Porn is just as likely to reduce you to fits of laughter, with lack of plot or over acting, Nothing to worry about.
Girls do mess about with each other - Don't worry, its all normal
If you don't want her getting at your porn, hide it better or lock it away.
2007-03-02 00:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by steven m 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She is at that age of curiosity and she wants to find out about the feelings she is now getting. Well talk to her about it. Let her know the advantages and disadvanteges of sex and after that the rest is up to her to discover.
2007-03-02 00:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Wanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋