im 12 and preg wit a lil boy
2007-03-02 00:14:26 · 14 answers · asked by iluvmalike 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sweet Jesus child you are still a child your self!! Why in the world were you having sex let alone unprotected sex at that? Have you told your parents?That you are going to have to do.Then you are going to have to tell the boy and his parents,Then get your but to a DR ASAP!!And then get ready for a BIG change your life is over child and you dont even have a clue what you have done,this baby has to come first,not you anymore.You need to keep your but in school so you can at least get a education so you can take care of this baby.You said you are pregnant with a little boy so i take it that you are 18+ weeks,you need to sit down with your parents,his parents,and the daddy and figure out if keeping this baby is what you all want and if it's best for the baby,you all are so young child it is gonna be dag on hard and thats an understatment at best.If you all dont think you can or should keep it than you need to talk about adoption,I know that there are plenty of couples who would love and cherish the baby if you cant keep it.I wish you the best of luck and i beg you to learn from this.wait until you are all grown up before playing house again,take care
2007-03-02 00:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
First thing that you should do is tell your folks that u r preg. Because if u dont they will find out later, and you dont want that to happen. So u tell ur parents and then tell the "father" of the baby that u r preg. Then go to a doctor and have an adoption. Probem Solved.
2007-03-02 14:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very hard question to answer. You need to talk to your patents and they can help you with this. Your only 12 so, it is very possible that you are going to have problems with the pregnancy meaning your health. I am not saying that you will its just that your body is going to go through some major changes that it's not used to nor should it be going through it that early. It si the same thing as when an older women gets pregnant . You should talk to your parents though and go from there. Good luck to you.
2007-03-02 08:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by ws_422 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your circumstances at home. You need to consider who would look after your baby whilst you're at school. Can you provide a safe, stable home for your baby to grow up in?
If you have no support then I think you should consider adoption but could you give up your child?
Try your best to put the baby first but don't break your own heart in the process. You could still get an education and proper job with a baby. If you do keep him, be the best Mum you can.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 08:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore all those people telling you how wrong it is. you probably have gotten that enough already. you have a few options. you can have an abortion, or you can give birth to the child. seeing as you are only 12, going forth with the pregnancy is a serious risk to your heatlth. then again many people would kill for a baby. once you have the child, you can keep it, or give it up for adoption. if i were you i would either put the child up for adoption or just have an abortion. the decision is truly yours. talk over it with your parents and together you can find out the perfect solution. good luck!
2007-03-02 14:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by *PrEpPy!* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Have a daughter of your age and very very mature for her age as girls are however no matter how old you are you need to let someone no about the baby
not only for your sake but the babys also as you will need all the help you can get I with what ever choice you make I was 18 when I had my 1st daughter and it is very very very hard then never mindnow and at age 12. if you can not talk to parents you need to talk to some one as you really can NOT carry on with this secret (as it will be if you are asking for help) you can only get so much help of others but you need a close person to guide you and not to let you carry on your own as it never works.and you and your child will suffer one way or a nother PLEASE GO TO SOMEONE and good luck child you are going to need it......
2007-03-02 08:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by julz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats young, you shouldnt be having sex in the first place. Dont have an abortion there are so many people out there that want kids and cant have them, Id go with adoption, you need to grow up and finish school before you try to take care of a baby, and my guess is you prob. wouldnt raise it, your mother would because you would be going to school, and wanting to hang out with friends, do what you want to do in life before you bring another one in the world. Let someone who can take care of it have it and love it.
2007-03-02 08:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer H 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your 12? Thanx for the heart attack... I couldn't feel it beating before... now it's pumping real hard!...
Okay, enough jokes, I think you really should think about giving it up for adoption. It's the best thing for you and your baby. You wont ruin your life and nor will you ruin your baby's. Think about it.
Take care.
2007-03-02 08:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Trisha 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look into adoption. You have your whole life ahead of you and it is going to be very hard with a little one in tow. You need to finish school, college, support yourself. Adoption doesn't mean you didn't love the little one, it means you loved them enough to give them a better start.
2007-03-02 08:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Oh... I don't think that adoption is the sollution.,., HJow do you feel about it? Do your parents know? maybe they could help you..
of course it's a great sin to leave your baby.
I hope everything will be fine!
Trust in God! He will help you.
2007-03-02 08:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋