well all moth ive been under super stress thinking about pregnancy, ever since my first encounter which was in febraury 1st, ever since the day after that happened ive been thinking i was pregnant i was getting symptoms the day after sex i dont get why we used a condom and it didnt break nor leak so how would it happen, well now im late for my period, and my breast are bigger, and i feel like my lower abdomen above my pelvic bone is hard/swollen..... can it be that im pregnant or that this whole time ive thought i was that it triggered something in my mind...my dad wants to take me to the doctor because i was having pain and he thinks it can be appendicitis, but i really doubt it would make my breast bigger, do you think i should worry about it, or do you think it could all be the intense stress and i should just go with him?
2007-03-01 23:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he is very over protective and will want to come into the examination room
2007-03-01 23:33:51 · update #1
Ask him to take you to the doctor's but ask him not to come into the examination room. Tell him that you think that you're too old to have him there, or you want to ask the doctor some "woman" questions while you're there
2007-03-01 23:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first you need to calm down. I remember the first time I had sex, I did the same thing, I stressed that "oh my god i'm pregnant now" and i was late because i was stressing out about it. But it turned out I wasn't pregnant and everything was fine a little while later. If you did everything right then you should have nothing to worry about. But if you are still stressing about it then have your dad take you to the doctor but ask him to stay out of the room. You are old enough to have sex you are old enough to go to the doctor by yourself. But for now try to stop thinking about it and don't worry I'm sure your not pregnant. Good Luck
2007-03-02 07:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok babe de stress!!
Sometimes these things are in your head!! I mean these symptoms your having are the symptoms most girls get before their period anyway!!
If your worried why don't you take yourself to the doctors all you need is your medicare number make an appointment and go. If you are old enough to be having sex your old enough to be taking yourself to the doctors. Talk to the doctor about other forms of contraceptives eg Implanon, depo provera these can be put into your body to ward off the dreaded ''your pregnant '' syndrome that all sexually active teenagers dread!! Make a mature decision and Goodluck for the future!! x x x
2007-03-02 07:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are old enough to be having a period I would think that you are too old for your father to be in the examing room with you...Second , why dont you just go to the supermarket, drugstore, kmart, walmart, whatever and buy a home pregnancy test?? Then you will know if you are pregnant and can take it from there..
2007-03-02 08:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by virgie555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go to the doctor with your father and tell him the truth, he will find out...It's hard to tell the truth...anyway if you're pregnant don't do anything stupid, don't kill the baby that can be your only one!
There are lots of girls that did that and later on they couldn't have children! Pray and God will help you. Go to the doctor and try to be a good girl (I know it's a bit late but better late..)Take good care!
2007-03-02 07:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need to be seen by a Dr, but you cant get pregnancy symptoms the day after the "baby dance" and if the condom didnt break than i would say more than likely you are not pregnant.But if you are under age your parents will have to know because 1 of them will have to take you to the Dr.And if it turns out that you are pregnant than you will still have to tell them so i say talk to them let them know whats going on and by all means see your Dr ASAP! Goodluck
2007-03-02 07:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he is gonna find out eventually right? So why don't you just tell him and then that way you can just get it over with and then be stressed out afterwards but to much stress ain't good okay so i ain't telling you what to do but hey it is worth a try
2007-03-02 07:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No secret that will remain secret forever. tell the truth to your father now before its too late. anyway he will know everything when time comes.
2007-03-02 07:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you are not pregnant but look at it this way if you are he is gonna find out anyway.
2007-03-02 07:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋