To all those in gay/lesbian relationships (or not), are you proud of being with your partner of the same sex? Do you think should anyone feel ashamed or scared of being a lesbian/gay? And would you choose between following your heart to be with your partner or the easier way out and deny what or who you truely want?
2007-03-01 22:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not ashamed of who I am -- I don't understand your last question.
2007-03-01 22:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im not ashamed or scared ......Im not sure what you are asking at the end of your quiestion....
And would you choose between following your heart to be with your partner or the easier way out and deny what or who you truely want?...
Are you asking would I stat with my partner or leave him for someone I really want?
2007-03-02 06:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not at all ashamed of who I am or of being with my partner. Nothing is "easy" about lying to yourself and others about who you are and being alone....just to please the bigots. and the only reason any of us have ever felt ashamed is because we've been made to feel that way by close-minded people such as yourself. It's really annoying and insulting as an adult to hear other adults behave in such a juvenile manner. But when a child or teenager hears this kind of garbage, it can be emotionally damaging.
2007-03-02 08:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lesbian myself, but I think everyone should be able to freely live the life they want, whether it be as a homosexual or heterosexual. I have many friends who are homosexuals, and although some took a while to "come out" they are much more happier to be able to live thier life without feeling like they have someone to hide. Although their are some people who may ridiculd them, the majority of people treat them as a normal human being. And homosexual marriage should be legalised in all countries!
2007-03-02 06:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry_fairy_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am Proud of my partner and I am following my heart. I am neither ashamed nor scared.
2007-03-02 07:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am NOT GAY OR LESBIAN, But I do NOT think anyone should be ashamed of who they are or what they are. WE do NOT get to choose WHO we are in life. It is something that is handed down to us. Just as there are people who are handicapped there are people who are gay/lesbians, as there are people who are born smart, and there are people who are mentally challenged. Its life. We take what we get.
2007-03-02 06:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should be ashamed of what we are. Where the shame comes from is by what we do.
What an individual does is up to them, it is God's love for us all that allows us the free will to walk the narrow path or travel the highway everyone else is on. This is our life, we choose to shame ourselves whether we realize it, or deny it. We ourselves will make that decision of shame or dignity.
Do not be ashamed of yourself, be ashamed of your wrong decisions. The decisions that hurt God in His love for you.
2007-03-02 06:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a lesbian, and no i am not ashamed of loving another woman. if you cant be true to yourself whether gay straight etc
how can anyone else expect you to be true to them.
to believe what you say or how you feel.
life is too short to be ashamed of who or what you are
or what is that you want in life.
you cant please everyone so quit trying to be someone or something that you are not.
i would rather be hated for being true to myself, than respected for something i am not.
2007-03-02 08:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a gay man, no one should be ashamed or afriad of who they are, whether they are gay, straight, black, white, male, female etc.
2007-03-02 11:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IF YOU ARE GAY OR LESIBIAN STAND UP AND BE PROUD OF ITT. THERES NO SHAME NONE IN BEING GAY OR LESBIAN. AND SCARED NO WE ARE A VERY VERY CLOSE LOVING, GAY PARTNERS HERE AND INTEND ON SYAYING THIS WAY FOR LIFE. WE LOVE WHO WE ARE AND NOBODYS VIEWS WIL CHANGE US. WE ARE TOUGH AND STRONG AND IN A RELATIONSHIPP, STAY COMMITEED. VERY VERY PROUD OF WHO WE ARE. WONT CHANGE US FOR ANYTHING. IF YOU CANT HANDLE IT THEN CHANGE ITT. THERSS NO DENIAL AROUND HERE.
2007-03-02 08:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋