My cousin once told me that, when getting married, that the bride should make sure that her groom loves her more, then she loves him. The reason would be so that she would avoid being taken advantage of emotionally.
2007-03-01 21:57:57 · 10 answers · asked by torgralori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Each person loves in a different manner. What is the measure of their feelings, only they know for sure.
It is not a matter of who loves who more, it is a matter of how openly the display is. You can love someone intensely and yet only show a little of that emotion outwardly and yet some people will love someone to the extreme for a week and then realise they aren't really in love??
Don't get too caught up in this and trust your own feelings, generally you will know if it is real love with both of you even without a reciprocally outward show of emotion.
2007-03-01 22:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Rational Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's human nature for one person to love the other more than the other loves him/her. I know I love my wife more than she loves me. I think she loves me but she wouldn't go to the lengths that I've gone to for her.
I think what it all boils down to is whether or not there is a huge divide between how much he loves her compared to how much she loves him. If it's a gigantic divide, that's kind of a danger signal for the relationship. There will be tough times in every relationship and if the divide is huge, the relationship may not be able to survive long term.
I wouldn't say DON'T marry the guy but do some major soul searching before she does say "I do".
2007-03-01 22:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a lot of rubbish, she is doing to her prospective groom to be the one thing she doesnt want done to her! total hypocrite. Marriage should be a partnership 50/50, she sounds immature and selfish, sorry but she does
2007-03-01 22:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree. If you love & respect yourself nobody will be able to take advantage of you emotionally. If somebody loves & respects you they will not even try & take advantage of you in anyway.
2007-03-01 22:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To maintain spontainity in relationship is very important. It is unique in each case.
2007-03-01 22:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by manjunath s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you high there is no way of knowing if they love you as much or more .... only they and God knows .....
2007-03-01 22:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by GEN-GEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? That's nuts. Men are not as bad as you think.
2007-03-01 22:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that both sure love both the same
2007-03-01 22:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can we ever know how deep their love is for us? we can only know what is in our own hearts...God knows the rest...
2007-03-01 22:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are heavy dope smokers,Right
2007-03-01 22:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋