2007-03-01 21:46:17 · 12 answers · asked by kish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be good to go to marriage counselling together before deciding on a divorce. Some problems can be overcome and people do stay together. marriage is a commitment, fight for it, seek counselling whatever, but only divorce if there really is no other option
2007-03-01 21:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they are willing. Counselling doesn't help those who don't want help. Why? Because the people seeking counselling do the work. It would be a total waste of time and money if one or niether party wasn't interested in the relationship anymore. Of course, marriage counsellors would make a lot more money that way!
2007-03-02 05:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe that if people went to counseling that more marriages could be saved. but often times one person wants the help and the other doesn't, because they have begun another relationship and won't even consider counseling. if they got therapy maybe there wouldn't be a divorce. both parties have to want the therapy.
2007-03-02 07:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take a horse to water but you cant make it drink,if papers have been served maybe its too late.Ask the question,it might be just what she's wanted and didn't know how to tell you things weren't right.A family member did that to their partner and now both are very happy,things can sometimes work out for the best,but not always..
Good luck whatever happens..
2007-03-03 12:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by freddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should - unless it is a reason for divorce that is in excusable
I wqould hope any couple thinking of divorce would go thru counseling
2007-03-02 08:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Meaning if you two are still in love and deep inside there is still a chance for survival, than yes, I agree 100%. It takes two for an effort to become one.
2007-03-02 05:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think you should,especially when your marriage is less than five years old,but if its a case of abuse,no need to,a psychiatrist will be best then
2007-03-02 07:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by vanpuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately!! Marriage takes work, sacrifice, and understanding. If they can't figure this out themselves, sometimes it takes a lil help.
2007-03-02 06:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course ! if they'll hv divorce then thier lives will burst like a cracker !! some1 in my relation experienced it !
2007-03-02 05:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Harshita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they should attend relate,unless they are arrogant dishonest,and call it too late
2007-03-02 05:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋