My boyfriend of 5yrs has been taking personal items of mine (jewelry& antiques) & he's trying to sell them to people we both know. While visiting friends, some of my things were returned. I love him so it is very important that he tell the truth. What do I do now?
2007-03-01 21:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by reighn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love him or not, he apparently doesn't think much of you to steal your stuff. It doesn't matter what it is: stealing, telling lies, or whatever. The fact of the matter is, your his girlfriend. Your supposed to be one of the most, if not the most, important thing in his life. And he steals your stuff. I say get out and get over your broken heart before you waste anymore of your time on a loser.
2007-03-01 21:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious that he's using drugs. How can you respect him or yourself because he's stealing from you? Confront him and tell him he has to get some help. Then leave him. If you don't he'll bring you down with him. he's not even your husband. if you don't tackle the problem now- you'll be unhappy later.
2007-03-01 21:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by ficklenurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be concerned with what he,s using the money for?My mother in law had same thing with her husband who was a heavy drinker he started taking bits and pieces jewellery ect and using money for booze.You need to have serious talk with him now.Good luck
2007-03-01 21:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by smiler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how can you ever trust him? and what is he doing with the money he is getting for your stuff...I would ditch him...you are in for a life of misery if you don't just end this relationship and get him away from your things...Think about this: is he buying drugs with the money? Why isn't he working instead of stealing and selling your stuff?
2007-03-01 21:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving him cash,that might help solve the problem.
2007-03-01 21:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by dcam47 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
arrane a visit to a therapist so that he/she can talk to you both
2007-03-01 21:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋